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The bittersweet joy in longing | Susan Cain

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🗓️ 11 August 2022

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Have you ever wondered why you like sad music? Do you find comfort or inspiration in rainy days? In this profound, poetic talk, author Susan Cain invites you to embrace the feeling of longing -- or the place where joy and sorrow meet -- as a gateway to creativity, connection and love. Accompanied by the splendid sounds of violinist Min Kym, Cain meditates on how heartache unexpectedly brings us closer to the sublime beauty of life. Afterwards, hear a sneak peak from a conversation with Cain on Amanda Palmer's podcast The Art of Asking Everything, where they discuss her new book "Bittersweet." This episode is part of the TED Talks Daily summer book club, a series featuring talks and interviews to inspire your next great read.

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0:00.0

I'm Elise Hugh, you're listening to the Ted Talks Daily Summer Book Club series.

0:08.3

So much keeps us distracted these days, right?

0:11.2

And it's hard to just sit still and reflect on what we really want, what we really long

0:15.4

for.

0:16.4

But author Susan Cain makes the case in her 2019 talk that longing is a really meaningful

0:22.4

guide.

0:24.2

Stick around after to hear Susan on Amanda Palmer's podcast, The Art of Asking Everything, where

0:29.4

she talks about some of the themes shared in her talk and her newest book, Better Sweet.

0:34.4

They get into how longing and asking are two sides of the same coin.

0:41.8

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1:14.4

When I was in my early 30s, I was an associate at a Wall Street law firm and I had been

1:19.5

working 16 hour days for seven years straight.

1:26.5

I had this beautiful and impossible dream of becoming a writer.

1:31.1

I was also pretty ambitious and on the verge of making partner.

1:35.8

Or so I thought.

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