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The Dr. Laura Podcast

The Biggest Mistake Parents Make With Highly Intelligent Kids

The Dr. Laura Podcast

Dr. Laura Schlessinger & SiriusXM

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🗓️ 21 May 2026

⏱️ 5 minutes

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"The Biggest Mistake Parents Make With Highly Intelligent Kids" - Listen to my Morning Monologue: I’m sharing my take on pressing issues, enlightening research on human behavior, answering questions I get by email, and my favorite, most instructive interactions with callers. Everything you’ll hear is designed to help you become a better spouse, parent, family member, co-worker, friend, and human being. It’s the free therapy you need! Got a dilemma? Call 1-800-DR-LAURA / 1-800-375-2872 or make an appointment at DrLaura.com - Listen to The Dr. Laura Program daily on SiriusXM Triumph 123.

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0:00.0

Thank you for listening to my morning monologue.

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Remember, you can hear my radio program daily on Sirius XM Triumph and connect with me 24-7

0:26.2

at Dr.ora.com. I want to talk about something near and dear to my heart, and that has to do with

0:34.2

raising kids. The biggest mistake parents make with highly intelligent kids is they praise the innate

0:41.7

talents, like telling a gorgeous girl how gorgeous she is, instead of the effort they put in.

0:46.6

This creates a situation where smart kids are repeatedly told they're just so smart that they rely their self-worth to their

0:58.3

IQs. Consequently, they may become terrified of failing, avoid challenging tasks, and give up the

1:07.4

moment things get difficult because they don't know how to handle the hard work.

1:14.0

That's why B students do better emotionally.

1:18.0

Psychological and parenting experts highlight several other common pitfalls when raising exceptionally

1:26.3

kids praising the wrong things, praising the outcome

1:30.7

of the intellect, instead of praising the effort. I'm so proud of how hard you worked, rather than

1:37.9

you're so smart. Assuming brilliance means emotional maturity. Hell no.

1:45.1

Children may read or calculate at a very high level,

1:48.5

but they still have the emotional regulation of an elementary schooler.

1:53.8

Assuming they're just like little adults because they're so smart

1:56.7

can lead to very unrealistic expectations and a lack of empathy when they have age-appropriate

2:04.9

meltdowns. Neglecting resilience and grit because early school concepts come easily. Many

2:12.7

smart kids never learn how to study, had a struggle, and how to fail. When they finally hit a roadblock

2:20.1

in advanced classes, they often lack the frustration, tolerance, and study habits required to push

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