The Biggest Mistake Parents Make With Highly Intelligent Kids
The Dr. Laura Podcast
Dr. Laura Schlessinger & SiriusXM
4.6 • 6.3K Ratings
🗓️ 21 May 2026
⏱️ 5 minutes
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| 0:26.2 | at Dr.ora.com. I want to talk about something near and dear to my heart, and that has to do with |
| 0:34.2 | raising kids. The biggest mistake parents make with highly intelligent kids is they praise the innate |
| 0:41.7 | talents, like telling a gorgeous girl how gorgeous she is, instead of the effort they put in. |
| 0:46.6 | This creates a situation where smart kids are repeatedly told they're just so smart that they rely their self-worth to their |
| 0:58.3 | IQs. Consequently, they may become terrified of failing, avoid challenging tasks, and give up the |
| 1:07.4 | moment things get difficult because they don't know how to handle the hard work. |
| 1:14.0 | That's why B students do better emotionally. |
| 1:18.0 | Psychological and parenting experts highlight several other common pitfalls when raising exceptionally |
| 1:26.3 | kids praising the wrong things, praising the outcome |
| 1:30.7 | of the intellect, instead of praising the effort. I'm so proud of how hard you worked, rather than |
| 1:37.9 | you're so smart. Assuming brilliance means emotional maturity. Hell no. |
| 1:45.1 | Children may read or calculate at a very high level, |
| 1:48.5 | but they still have the emotional regulation of an elementary schooler. |
| 1:53.8 | Assuming they're just like little adults because they're so smart |
| 1:56.7 | can lead to very unrealistic expectations and a lack of empathy when they have age-appropriate |
| 2:04.9 | meltdowns. Neglecting resilience and grit because early school concepts come easily. Many |
| 2:12.7 | smart kids never learn how to study, had a struggle, and how to fail. When they finally hit a roadblock |
| 2:20.1 | in advanced classes, they often lack the frustration, tolerance, and study habits required to push |
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