Welcome to Let It Be Easy with Susie Moore.

Okay, what I'm sharing with you today might be one of the most important things you can learn in your life, and I am not exaggerating.

This is the reality, and I've learned it over consuming so much self-help material over the years.

This brings me back back to a place of calm, of certainty, of feeling solid and steady within

myself and knowing that I'm taking the right action.

Okay. Do you ever have those moments of doubt when you're like,

I just, I don't know what to do next. I don't know what the best next step is. I don't know what to decide. Or maybe you're, maybe something's happened that you didn't expect, something that seems

to come out of the blue. And you're like, I don't know how to react to

this. I don't know if I should speak up or if I should be quiet. I don't know if I should

react or if I should just pause and think. I don't know if I should start a fight or if I should

pander to this person. I mean, look, this comes up in a million ways, right? At work, in our relationships, on the street. I mean, this is the reality of life. Things

happen that we don't want. Things happen that are unexpected. Opportunities arise and we don't

have clear guidance. We're like, oh, I just don't know. In fact, an opportunity came up for me

recently. A former co-worker of mine asked me to come

and help his team with something specific. There's been some conflict in his team. And he's like,

Susie, I know her. She's a life coach. We used to work together. And he's like, can you come and help?

Can you come and spend half a day with my team so we can communicate better? And what was interesting

was I actually didn't have a clear answer. My gut instinct wasn't there. I was in two minds.

I'll give you my two points of view. The first was this, I'm not an expert in conflict resolution.

Oh, here's a side note, my friends.

Know what you're good at, okay?

Lean into what you're good at just because you're invited to something or someone thinks

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