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SOLVED with Mark Manson

The Best Thing About You is Also the Worst Thing

SOLVED with Mark Manson

Mark Manson

Education, Self-improvement

4.94.1K Ratings

🗓️ 25 February 2026

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

A Hungarian doctor discovered that handwashing saves lives, and was destroyed for proving it. Michael Jordan’s competitiveness made him a legend, then turned him into a prisoner of his own intensity. My ADHD nearly derailed my life and later became the foundation of my career. This video explores an uncomfortable truth: the traits that make you exceptional are often the same ones that create your biggest problems. The real question isn't “How do I change?” but “Is this worth it, and how do I manage it?” For practical, science-based advice each week that might change your life, sign up for my newsletter here: http://bit.ly/3JRg3NX Get clarity on what actually matters. Try Purpose, Mark's AI mentor app that learns your patterns, challenges your blind spots, and helps you take action. Get 7 days free at ⁠purpose.app/solved⁠ Check out our sponsor: Get one month of BrainFM free with my link: https://go.brain.fm/idgaf Written & Directed by Mark Manson Edited by Daniel Johnson Director of Photography Jess Choi Thumbnail by Jonathan Sippel Follow Mark Mark’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/markmanson Solved IG: https://www.instagram.com/solvedpodcast/ Twitter: https://x.com/markmanson LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markmanson/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@IAmMarkManson Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Hey, everybody, it's Mark here. So this episode is going to be a little bit different. It's a little

0:05.2

shorter, a little more personal, less of a discussion, and more of me just thinking out loud

0:10.3

about something that's been rattling around in my head for a little while. I've been wanting to

0:14.2

try something a little bit more raw on this feed and today felt like the right time. Because today,

0:19.0

I want to talk about ADHD. More specifically, I want

0:22.6

to talk about why ADHD might be both the best thing and the worst thing that has ever

0:27.3

happened to me. I also want to talk about a question that has haunted me since I was about

0:31.2

15 years old. Because here's the thing that nobody really tells you. The traits that hold you

0:36.2

back the most, they are often the same

0:38.7

exact traits that make you exceptional. So the trick isn't necessarily to fix yourself, it's to,

0:44.6

well, it's to do something else. So without further ado, here are some of the lessons that I've taken

0:49.7

from ADHD. When I was 15 years old, my grades were terrible. My room was a mess. I stayed up all night

0:56.7

playing video games and I slept through half my classes. That year, I was diagnosed with ADHD

1:02.0

and put on medication. And it worked. My grades went up. My room got clean. The video games

1:08.3

turned off and I could sit through an entire class without my

1:11.3

brain wandering off to some random thought about whether fish get thirsty or what would

1:16.2

happen if gravity reversed for exactly one second. But something else happened too, which is that

1:21.7

my interests narrowed, my social life quieted. I became quite functional, productive, and completely uninterested in

1:30.3

most things that I used to be interested in. I just figured that this is what growing up was,

1:35.2

trading spontaneity for grades, the messiness for metrics. But then one day, one of my teachers

1:40.8

pulled me aside. He asked me about my ADHD meds and how I was feeling.

1:45.5

I thought I was fine, but he wasn't satisfied. He said, look, Mark, it's great that you're making

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