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Murder, Mystery & Makeup

The BDSM Texts That Exposed a Killer: The Elaine O’Hara Case (Podcast Exclusive)

Murder, Mystery & Makeup

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True Crime, Society & Culture, History, Documentary

4.98.8K Ratings

🗓️ 7 October 2025

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Hi friends, Happy Tuesday!

I'm so excited. I have a new AUDIO EXCLUSIVE for you!!

It started with a shocking discovery: handcuffs, leg irons, and a knife — tools of control found sunken at the bottom of a drained reservoir. To investigators, the discovery wasn't just debris; it was the first clue in the disappearance of Elaine O'Hara.

Elaine was a vulnerable woman who looked for an escape in the world of BDSM, unknowingly putting herself on a predator's radar. That predator? Graham Dwyer: a successful architect, a husband, and a father, who lived a polished life while secretly nurturing violent sexual fantasies.

Today we're talking about a case that rocked Ireland. Thousands of sadistic text messages recovered from a secret set of "master/slave" phones detail a twisted plot. This is the story of how investigators used cell phone data to trace a double life that went from online fantasy to cold-blooded murder.

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0:00.0

Hi friends, how are you today? I hope you're having a wonderful day so far. My name is Bailey Sarian,

0:04.8

and I like to welcome you to my podcast, Murder, Mystery, and Makeup. Now you might follow me over

0:11.3

on YouTube where you can actually watch these episodes, but today we have an audio exclusive.

0:18.8

That's right, you're only going to hear it here. So don't forget to subscribe for these

0:23.6

little exclusives I do. But now let's get into today's story. Listen, it's August 2013

0:32.6

in County Wicklow, Ireland. The water levels at Vartree Reservoir had dropped way low, and a couple

0:40.0

of fishermen wandering across the bridge started noticing things in the shallows that weren't

0:45.7

normally visible. Now, first, they figured it was just junk, you know, random debris. But when they

0:52.4

pulled it out, no, not junk. What they found was a collection

0:57.5

of restraints, handcuffs, leg irons, a gag, a blindfold, and even a knife. I mean, imagine you're

1:08.6

out by the water expecting maybe to find like an old boot or some

1:12.1

trash, you know, and instead you're holding shackles and a knife. These aren't the kind of things

1:17.8

that just happened to end up in a lake. These are tools of control, tools of violence, into investigators.

1:25.9

They weren't just creepy odds and ends.

1:28.3

They were the very first clue in unraveling the tragic disappearance of a woman named Elaine O'Hara

1:37.3

and exposing the dark double life of the man who murdered her.

2:04.3

Listen, today's episode contains discussions of mental health struggles, suicide, sexual violence, and murder. So listener discretion is advised.

2:12.6

Elaine O'Hara was 36 years old, living in Kaliney, Dublin, a coastal suburb known for its beaches and rolling green hills. From the outside, you know, Elaine's life seemed pretty normal.

2:20.0

She worked as a child care assistant,

2:22.4

picked up shifts at a news agent,

2:24.5

and was even taking night classes hoping to move into Montessori teaching.

2:28.5

But listen, behind the scenes, Elaine definitely had her struggles.

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