Are you addicted to pixelated versions of the female body?

Are you engaged in drug abuse or alcohol abuse or any sort of sedation method?

And if you are, then you're doing that in secret, you're not exhibiting character.

But I think acknowledging that we have deficiencies in our character,

and I think acknowledging that we want to find good men in our corner who have fewer character flaws.

And for the character flaws, they do, they're willing to acknowledge them and address them and overcome them.

Gentlemen, men are struggling.

And specifically, they're struggling in the ability to connect,

relate with, and band with other men. There's this pervasive ideology in modern culture that says

that men are meant to go at it alone, that you can figure it all out, that you should know what you

ought to be doing, that if you need help or need insight or need direction, or you need to learn,

quote unquote, what it means to be a man, then you're less of a man. Now look, I'll be the first

to tell you that there are inherent virtues or principles or codes of conduct or even behavior

biologically innate within us as males.

But if you have bought into the idea that you're supposed to know how to harness all of that,

how to create productive outcomes for yourself and other people, just

because you're biologically hardwired to do that. You're buying into a lie. The reality is,

is you have all of the tools necessary, but unless you learn how to wield those tools,

you really won't be able to wield them effectively

and correctly. If somebody has never been introduced to a hammer, and I give them a hammer,

and I tell them, this is a tool, use it correctly, but they've never been exposed to a hammer before,

not only are they not going to use it correctly, they're not even going to know what it is. And that's why I really reject and am repulsed by the

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