The Balance of Being Interested AND Indifferent When Seducing Women
The Unapologetic Man Podcast
Mark Sing
4.8 • 1.3K Ratings
🗓️ 1 August 2024
⏱️ 23 minutes
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Summary
As men, we’re told to be the initiators; it’s our job to approach and demonstrate interest in the woman. But if you show too much interest, she’s going to get turned off.
So, it’s no surprise that many guys struggle to find the right balance of hot and cold in order to maximize attraction.
Fortunately, through decades of hands-on experience, Mark has devised the perfect ratio and distilled it down into a few simple rules you can follow to ensure you don’t lose her interest by being too needy. All of which will be shared with you in today’s episode.
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| 0:00.0 | Whenever I meet a girl the first thing I look for is intelligence because if she's not |
| 0:05.8 | intelligent then I know I have a chance. |
| 0:09.2 | Welcome to the Unapologetic Man Podcast. |
| 0:12.4 | The only podcast it's all about self-improvement, |
| 0:14.8 | confidence, success, women, and being a man without making any apologies for it. What is up gentlemen? Thank you for tuning in to another episode of the UMP. |
| 0:30.3 | I really do appreciate it and today we are going to talk about the balance of being |
| 0:34.5 | interested and indifferent when seducing women you have to be both you have to be |
| 0:39.9 | interested in her but you don't care what happens you have to want her but you don't care what happens. |
| 0:42.8 | You have to want her, but you don't need her. |
| 0:45.4 | And that's a major point. |
| 0:47.0 | You have to bring energy to the conversation give value. |
| 0:50.5 | But if it doesn't go well, you don't give two shits because you know that you are valuable. |
| 0:55.0 | So we're going to talk about that balance because I think this is probably the biggest reason a lot of guys get blown out when it comes to speaking to women is because they're too needy, they're |
| 1:04.4 | too invested in that conversation going well, to invest in getting a phone number, a text |
| 1:09.6 | back, etc. |
| 1:11.0 | And they can't just let it go, but then you have other guys who take this philosophy of outcome independence not given a shit what happens and they go too far with it and they don't even try and they put forward a foot that basically says I care so |
| 1:24.7 | little about what you think about me that I'm actually unattractive because of it |
| 1:29.3 | so it's a balance boys and that's the thing that's cool about seducing women is it's all |
| 1:34.0 | balance you have to have a little bit of this a little bit of that you have to |
| 1:37.5 | push her away but at the same time pull her in you have to be hot some of the |
| 1:41.6 | times and then cold some of the times you have to be hot some of the times and then cold some of the times you have to be extremely |
| 1:45.6 | interested but at the same time not give a shit Make her feel like she's number one |
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