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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

The Backwards Law: Stop Chasing Happiness. Become Anti-fragile Instead. | Gad Saad PT 1

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory

Impact Theory

Business, News Commentary, News

4.7 • 5.2K Ratings

🗓️ 19 September 2023

⏱️ 89 minutes

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Summary

Welcome to Impact Theory! I’ve got an exciting two-part episode for today with the intriguing, at-times controversial, Gad Saad.  Known for his controversial views and unique approach to life, Gad believes that happiness is not an end goal but a byproduct of specific behaviors. He shares his insights and views of why the path to happiness is sometimes controversial when truth and authenticity are your highest values. Though this has led to death threats, Gad Saad, a renowned author, YouTuber, and award-winning professor who asserts that happiness is not a destination, but a byproduct of specific behaviors. “The only road to individual dignity and sustained existential happiness is to adopt an ethos of personal agency. You are the ultimate architect of your own happiness, so get to work.”  -Gad Saad We open the door for deeper conversation as Gad explores our need for intellectual variety, operating from a non-fractured personality, and being truly antifragile in the sense of being able to handle opposing views and beliefs. Stay tuned for the second part of this compelling discussion as we start digging how an absurd amount of failure and rejections translate into happiness. Follow Gad Saad: Website: https://www.gadsaad.com/  Twitter: https://twitter.com/GadSaad  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@GadSaad  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/doctorgadsaad/  SPONSORS: Visit https://bit.ly/WildHealthImpact to apply for membership for a better alternative to traditional healthcare. Get 5 free AG1 Travel Packs and a FREE 1 year supply of Vitamin D with your first purchase at https://bit.ly/AG1Impact. Right now, Kajabi is offering a 30-day free trial to start your own business if you go to https://bit.ly/Kajabi-Impact. Head to www.insidetracker.com and use code “IMPACTTHEORY” to get 20% off! Learn a new language and get 55% off at https://bit.ly/BabbelImpact. Try NordVPN risk-free with a 30-day money-back guarantee by going to https://bit.ly/NordVPNImpact Give online therapy a try at https://bit.ly/BetterhelpImpact and get on your way to being your best self. Go to https://bit.ly/PlungeImpact and use code IMPACT to get $150 off your incredible cold plunge tub today. ***Are You Ready for EXTRA Impact?*** If you’re ready to find true fulfillment, strengthen your focus, and ignite your true potential, the Impact Theory subscription was created just for you. Want to transform your health, sharpen your mindset, improve your relationship, or conquer the business world? This is your epicenter of greatness.  This is not for the faint of heart. This is for those who dare to learn obsessively, every day, day after day. * New episodes delivered ad-free * Unlock the gates to a treasure trove of wisdom from inspiring guests like Andrew Huberman, Mel Robbins, Hal Elrod, Matthew McConaughey, and many, many, more * Exclusive access to Tom’s AMAs, keynote speeches, and suggestions from his personal reading list * You’ll also get access to an 5 additional podcasts with hundreds of archived Impact Theory episodes, meticulously curated into themed playlists covering health, mindset, business, relationships, and more: *Legendary Mindset: Mindset & Self-Improvement *Money Mindset: Business & Finance *Relationship Theory: Relationships *Health Theory: Mental & Physical Health *Power Ups: Weekly Doses of Short Motivational Quotes  *****Subscribe on Apple Podcasts: https://apple.co/3PCvJaz***** Subscribe on all other platforms (Google Podcasts, Spotify, Castro, Downcast, Overcast, Pocket Casts, Podcast Addict, Podcast Republic, Podkicker, and more) : https://impacttheorynetwork.supercast.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

If your goal is to be better at life, your first assumption is going to be to pursue happiness,

0:05.2

but that is a mistake. Happiness is a result that cannot be directly pursued. It can only be

0:10.7

born of a set of behaviors, becoming anti-fragile and pursuing truth and authenticity. Here is

0:15.7

controversial YouTuber, author, and award-winning professor, Gad Sad, with the surprising path to happiness.

0:23.7

So as you think about the way to orchestrate happiness, one, I think it's important to define

0:30.3

happiness. If it isn't the sort of passing momentary happiness of eating a bowl of ice cream

0:36.4

or having good sex.

0:37.9

But those are actually both parts of this thing.

0:42.6

What is that cocktail of truth and freedom?

0:45.5

Is that the only parts of the cocktail?

0:47.1

Right.

0:47.7

So watching the porn, having the good sex, eating the ice cream and the juicy burger,

0:53.3

those are the dopamine

0:54.3

hits, right? They're tickling my pleasure center. So they're, they're ephemeral, they're passing.

0:59.9

Happiness in the way that I'm using the term, in the way that most philosophers have written

1:03.7

about the topic would use the term is through the serotonin system, right? I mean, I'm sitting on the

1:09.1

proverbial couch when I'm 85. I'm looking back at my life and I'm saying right? I mean, I'm sitting on the proverbial couch

1:10.9

when I'm 85, I'm looking back at my life

1:13.4

and I'm saying, you know what, I've lived a good life.

1:16.6

I've built a great marriage, I have great kids,

1:18.8

I've had a job that has given me infinite purpose and meaning,

1:23.0

I've got an incredible group of friends that I trust.

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