Have you ever had sort of a big dream for yourself, but were constantly told by people around you that it just wouldn't work?

You don't have the right stuff.

Well, what did you do about it?

Here's the thing.

Not that long ago, despite a lifelong love of running, Bobby Gibb was disqualified from running one of the world's biggest marathons simply because she was a woman. I'm Patty Steele, going

stealth to run the Boston Marathon. That's next on the backstory. Love at first swipe. I highly

doubt it. What's your biggest red flag? No, no, no. What's your ultimate green flag? These

days, reality TV and social media have us

thinking love is instant. We're marrying strangers at first sight, we're finding love through

walls, or we're even judging people by balloon pops. But what really makes a relationship

last? On this episode of Dope Labs, poet, author, and relationship

expert, Young Pueblo, breaks down the psychology and biology of loving better. And he provides

eye-opening insights and advice that we all need. It's a big realization moment that you should not be

postponing your happiness. Like Like your greatest happiness is not necessarily

going to like come from a relationship. Your partner, they should add to your happiness, but your

happiness is really coming from within you. Listen to dope labs on the Iheart radio app, Apple

podcasts, or wherever you get your podcast. The more you listen to your kids, the closer you'll be.

Find resources to help you support your kids and their emotional well-being at soundedouttogether.org.

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pivotal. The backstory is back. The Boston Marathon is coming up in the next month,

and backstory listeners Sue Aller of Oceanside Long Island turned me on to this story. But honestly,

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