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The Mental Healness Podcast

THE BACKFIRE: Why Narcissists Rage When You Actually Leave

The Mental Healness Podcast

Lee Hammock

Mental Health, Health & Fitness

4.91.2K Ratings

🗓️ 7 March 2026

⏱️ 30 minutes

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Summary

"Get out then!"It’s what they’ve been saying for weeks. They’ve devalued you, ignored you, and treated you like a burden until you finally had enough and packed your bags. But instead of the relief you expected them to feel, they exploded. They raged. They begged. They lost their minds.


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Transcript

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0:00.0

Right, that's it. Come on. Lights out. You've got a test tomorrow. Just two minutes. I'm about to reach the next level. It's going off now. Yeah, whatever. Let's see. Where's the app? Oh, here it is. What? How? Oh no, you're out. Better look next time. Mom! Here's game over for late nights on school nights. EE-E Wi-Fi controls how you get them off the Wi-Fi and into bed.

0:22.4

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0:27.8

To verify I see E.cote.org.U. Woo. I told you that I hated you. I told you that you were the

0:37.4

reason I was unhappy. I told you to pack your

0:40.1

stuff up and get the hell out. I told you a hundred times to pack your stuff up and get the

0:44.7

hell out. But then after you actually left, I wasn't planning on you leaving. I just I was just I was

0:51.5

just I was playing right. Actually when you actually left, it hurt.

0:58.3

Instead of being happy in getting what I wanted, getting that freedom that I told you I wanted from you,

1:04.1

I actually felt like my world was in it. Like today, as it died those narcissists, I'm telling you why

1:10.6

sometimes the reverse discard

1:12.8

backfires and why your, why your personal strength is the one thing a narcissist cannot handle.

1:22.0

The reverse discard, when it backfire, like when you cranking up a car and you hear that,

1:26.8

you hear that, like an old car, you hear that you hear that like an old

1:27.7

car and you hear you revving the engine up you like woo woo woo you hear that it's like a gunshot

1:32.9

coming out the back woo woo pow pow your car back that's what that's what happens that's what

1:40.8

happens when the reverse discard is going on sometimes right there, y'all.

1:44.6

That is what's going on.

1:46.6

Yeah, you're in Melbourne, so you might be super early at 4 or 5 a.m.

1:49.8

What's going on on, Jeanette?

1:51.8

You're in Australia too.

1:52.5

So Melbourne and got another Australia right here back to back.

1:55.9

But yeah, y'all, the reverse discard, if you don't know what the reverse discard is,

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