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🗓️ 23 November 2020
⏱️ 36 minutes
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0:00.0 | The Gone Cold Podcasts may contain violent or graphic subject matter. |
0:04.8 | Listener discretion is advised. |
0:08.2 | This episode deals with a man who perpetrated severe acts of domestic violence. |
0:14.0 | But all domestic violence is extremely detrimental and dangerous. |
0:19.0 | If you or anyone you know is experiencing domestic abuse and or violence in any form. |
0:25.9 | Please stop this episode now and contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800, 799, safe. That's 800, 799, 723. |
0:40.0 | Many who have never experienced domestic violence, both physical and emotional abuse, often wonder |
0:49.1 | why the victim doesn't simply leave the abuser, which is, without question, a form of victim blame that |
0:56.8 | ignores the manipulation, fear, and danger that an abuser casts over their victims. |
1:04.4 | There is a cycle in domestic violence that extends far beyond the individual acts of abuse |
1:10.0 | themselves. |
1:12.2 | Isolated incidents don't exist. |
1:15.0 | Between severe and particularly violent incidents at the hands of an abuser are acts of methodical manipulation. The abuse becomes subtle and perhaps difficult for the victim to |
1:27.9 | pinpoint. To avoid another explosive incident, a victim will likely tread lightly around the abuser |
1:36.0 | watching what they say or do acting on their best behavior to avoid tense situations that might lead to a physically or emotionally violent |
1:46.6 | outburst. |
1:48.3 | When an event of abuse occurs, a quote, honeymoon phase will almost always follow too. The abuser will become |
1:56.5 | loving and affectionate, profusely apologetic, overly agreeable to the victim's |
2:02.4 | wants and needs and sometimes shower the victim with gifts. |
2:08.0 | The behavior is nothing less than an act of control and manipulation by the abuser to keep the victim from leaving and is an extension |
2:16.7 | of the groundwork the abuser has already laid, that the victim has little choice but to stay since no one else wants them. |
2:26.7 | The cycle of abuse continues. |
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