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Fierce Marriage

The Art of Active Listening

Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.84.2K Ratings

🗓️ 23 March 2021

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Most people rarely experience being *deeply* listened to; you can give your spouse that gift! Last week we talked about Selective Hearing, which is all about catching every drop of what your spouse communicates. This episode puts that conversation on steroids: learning how to seek out and gain insight into each other and internalize it in healthier ways. If you ACTIVELY listen to this episode, you'll hear us share three distinct incentives for learning and applying this valuable skill in your own marriage. :) Our new marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is now open for enrollment! It's a great way to build a solid marriage foundation and finally get on the same page. It's built for all couples—newlyweds, nearly weds, and couples who have been married for years. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more. New mini-courses are being added to the enrichment library monthly! Thanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including early episode releases, free books & ebooks, silicone wedding rings, and exclusive ministry updates.

Transcript

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0:00.0

This month's theme has been communication, all right, so we started with

0:04.1

DeBroad kind of talking about talking if you missed any one of these episodes

0:08.5

We highly encourage you to go back and listen to those the second one was how to talk about sex and the reason is we've in our

0:15.4

Experience and all the couples that come talk to us even even in our own lives

0:19.1

So then just you need someone to give you permission to and tools to talk about

0:23.8

A little inspection on how to yeah, yeah, never hurt anybody. Yes, that was the second

0:28.8

Communication episode this month and then last week we talked about selective hearing and namely we talked to three

0:35.0

Kind of types of selective hearing three levels of selective hearing and gave you some tangible ways to kind of begin

0:40.5

Finding your way out of those habits out of those ruts and today we're talking about the art of intentional or what is the word we use active

0:48.4

Active listening the art of active listening and so you can kind of see the the progression happening, right?

0:55.4

So we go from

0:56.7

Ignoring not talking not knowing how to talk about to each other or about certain issues to now we're hearing

1:03.2

But maybe we're not hearing the fullness of what we could be hearing or should be hearing because our response is then

1:09.9

I think short circadian

1:12.6

some of the joy to be had or

1:15.1

The pleasure of just being with each other

1:19.3

Conversationally and you know in our spirits and how we're understanding each other. Yeah

1:24.6

Yeah, and and so this episode's all about that yeah that that art of active listening and getting to the deeper meaning

1:31.8

That your spouse is maybe they're trying to communicate, but they need your help to communicate that yeah

1:37.3

And then I think maybe we might change this but next week I think we're talking about

1:41.4

Learn to express yourself more more effectively

1:46.1

Like being myself

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