Judy Starr was in danger and didn't realize it.

She was falling for a man who wasn't her husband.

But God gave her the presence of mind to call up her friend and accountability partner, Holly.

Judy at that moment was rationalizing ridiculous things in her mind. And so as she called me, I really did talk to her like I would have talked to one of my kids who was getting ready to step into quicksand.

This is Revive Our Hearts with Nancy Lee DeMoss for Wednesday, February 1st.

If there's ever been a situation where it's better to learn

from the mistakes of others, it has to be in the area of marital infidelity. Our guest today, Judy

Starr and Holly Ellif, want to help others learn how to avoid the pitfalls that Judy found herself slipping into.

Nancy?

Judy and Holly, thank you so much for your honesty, your courage in being willing to deal with

this admittedly tough subject, but one that is so desperately needed, as we all know, among

women today.

We agree.

Every time I speak, it's amazing the number of women

that come up, women that you would never expect to have struggled with this issue. And that's

part of the point, women that you'd never expect, and women listening who would say, I'd never

expect to have a temptation myself to become interested in or attracted to a man who's not my husband.

Now, Judy, let me just for those who haven't heard the past couple of conversations we've had together.

Just recap here.

You were with your husband Stottler, involved in ministry.

You're on the staff of Campus Crusade for Christ, have been for many years.

And in this particular four-month period of your life, several years ago, as a

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