So so far in the fierce marriage, I don't know, ecosystem, we've covered sex in multiple capacities, right?

Covered it on the blog. Believe it or not, there is a blog.

Still a blog.

A fierce marriage blog at fearsmarriage.com.

That's how we started.

There's still articles coming out, by the way.

So if you're a reader, go check that out.

But we have talked about in the past on the blog, the spectrum of sex.

We've talked about what else uh i think like how to communicate through sex we did a whole communication series and we talked about intimacy yeah we talked about communicating through intimacy

having some of those hard talks hard conversations around that that's the communication side

of things we also have talked about just last week we talked about the seven reasons for sex. We've even talked about the purposes of sex. I don't know how many purposes there are. I'm going to say there's probably three knowing us. But today we're talking about the five modes of sex. And it can kind of start to feel like we're just coming up with stuff.

But let me put it this way.

I feel like one of the biggest reasons that couples struggle in this area is they approach

their sex life maybe with different modes at different times and they're not synced up

together.

Maybe one has a certain intention and a certain expectation.

The other one doesn't have that same intention

or that same expectation. And so they'll inevitably miss one another. So today, what we're hoping

to do is to give you some, maybe some terms to think through maybe the attitudes and the expectations

that you bring into the bedroom. And in that, we'll give you permission to then talk about it

and find greater health

in this area.

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