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Fierce Marriage

The 5 Modes of Sex (Sex Talks, 2 of 4)

Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederick

Religion & Spirituality, Christianity

4.84.2K Ratings

🗓️ 12 October 2021

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

What if one of you is in the mood and the other isn't? And what could "modes" have to do with solving your frustrations in that moment? In this episode we elaborate on our previous talks about "the spectrum of sex" by introducing 5 modes of sex. We hope it helps you!Our marriage learning project ~~Gospel Centered Marriage~~ is open for enrollment!It's a great way to build a solid marriage foundation get on the same page once and for all. It's built for all couples—newlyweds, nearly weds, and those who have been married for years. Visit GospelCenteredMarriage.com to learn more.Use promo code: SEXYTIME to save 25% on your enrollment at GospelCenteredMarriage.comThanks for listening! If you'd like to support this ministry, please visit Patreon.com/FierceMarriage. Our monthly patrons get plenty of perks, including early episode releases, free books & ebooks, silicone wedding rings, and exclusive ministry updates.

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0:00.0

So so far in the fierce marriage, I don't know ecosystem. We've covered sex in multiple capacities, right?

0:07.9

Covered it on the blog believe it or not. There is a blog a fierce marriage blog at fierce marriage.com

0:13.4

That's how we started

0:14.6

There's still articles coming out by the way, so if you're a reader go check that out

0:17.5

But we have talked about in the past on the blog the spectrum of sex. We've talked about

0:23.1

What else? I think how to communicate through sex we did a whole communication series and we talked about intimacy

0:29.1

Yeah, don't talk about communicating through intimacy at some of having some of those hard talks hard conversations around that

0:35.6

That's the communication side of things. We also have talked about just last week we talked about the seven

0:40.8

Reasons for sex we've even talked about the purposes of sex. I don't know how many purposes there are. I'm gonna say there's probably three

0:47.3

Knowing us, but today we're talking about the five

0:50.9

Modes of sex and it can kind of start to feel like we're just coming up with stuff

0:55.0

Blowing put it this way. I feel like one of the biggest reasons that couples struggle in this area is they approach

1:01.4

Their sex life maybe with different modes at different times and they're not synced up together

1:06.2

Maybe one has a certain intention and a certain expectation the other one doesn't have that same intention or that same

1:12.2

Expectation and so they'll inevitably miss one another so today what we're hoping to do is to give you some

1:18.4

Maybe some terms to think through

1:20.4

Maybe the attitudes and the expectations that you bring into the bedroom and in that will give you permission to then talk about it and

1:27.6

Find greater health in this area. So we're looking forward to this conversation

1:31.2

We'll see you when you decide

1:33.2

Welcome to the fierce marriage podcast where we believe that marriage takes a fierce tenacity that never gives up and

1:38.2

Refuses to give in here. We'll share openly and honestly about all things marriage sex

1:43.2

Communication finance priorities purpose and everything in between

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