The 4 ways to rebuild your "second place" for belonging
Modern Mentor
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4.3 • 726 Ratings
🗓️ 11 November 2025
⏱️ 10 minutes
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Summary
872. Work used to be a place where connection happened naturally. Now it's not - and the impacts run deeper than we realize. Rachel explores why we've lost the "Second Place" and offers five practical strategies to rebuild belonging and connection at work.
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, it's Rachel Cook, your modern mentor. |
| 0:21.2 | I'm the founder of Lead Above Noise, where we help leaders rethink how the work gets done, |
| 0:26.3 | like in ways that are hyperproductive, but that also keep people well and engaged. |
| 0:31.3 | We deliver the tools and skills so that leaders learn to build human goodness into the work |
| 0:36.4 | rather than relying on programs outside of the |
| 0:38.9 | work to fix overwhelm and burnout. Do you have an upcoming event or offsite that could use a dose of |
| 0:44.9 | inspiration and direction? Reach out today at leadabovenoise.com slash connect. Okay, on to today. |
| 0:58.2 | So one of my daughters has recently started creeping down the friend's rabbit hole. She has a lot of curiosity around how they all seem to have so much |
| 1:03.6 | time to spend in that coffee shop. She is not wrong to wonder this. Central Perk, after all, |
| 1:10.3 | played such a role in that show. It was their place, |
| 1:14.0 | where they gathered and caffeinated and made us laugh every Thursday night at 8. Because, yes, |
| 1:19.5 | I watched those shows back in the days of prime time. There was a magic there, kind of similar to |
| 1:25.4 | what Howard Shultz built Starbucks around. And he called it the third place. |
| 1:31.0 | Like home is our first place. Work is our second. But we needed a third, somewhere to just be and |
| 1:38.0 | belong. And now it feels like we're having a crisis of second place. As in work, it is feeling pretty broken. |
| 1:47.9 | Our sense of place there is it's feeling off. The second place used to build itself. |
| 1:54.3 | Proximity did most of the work. We showed up together in the same space and by the nature of our |
| 1:59.9 | just being physically together, |
| 2:01.8 | we built community, kind of by accident. And now, we've got remote work and global teams and |
| 2:08.9 | hybrid schedules, or sometimes commuting to offices just to sit on Zoom calls all day. We are not thriving. |
| 2:17.2 | We're burning out and quiet quitting and our results are |
| 2:20.9 | showing it. As I'm running Work Better by Design Workshops with leaders these days, I'm hearing the |
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