The 3 Fears That Hold Men Back - Tripp Lanier - 299

Relationship Coaching School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 15 July 2020

⏱️ 69 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

My good friend and Men’s Coach Tripp Lanier joins me in episode 299 of the podcast for a killer convo about why we shouldn’t take ourselves so seriously and how to put a voice to our fears so we can use them for fuel to get what we want.

Shownotes:

5:00 Introduction Tripp Lanier

10:35 What put Tripp on a path of self-discovery and growth?

12:50 Men dealing with their emotions and fears

14:25 The 3 big threats

18:00 The fear of being ourselves

20:40 Facing the problems in our lives

25:30 Using our feelings and emotions as a guide to a better life and better relationships

37:30 Assuming you are responsible for your own life

39:00 You don’t need to be in the mood to improve

41:15 Stop taking yourself too seriously

46:15 Setting goals for ourselves in a different way

50:30 What is freedom?

53:00 Comfort doesn’t mean fulfillment

56:00 The fear of change in our relationships

1:00:05 Advice to keep a marriage working

1:04:40 Action step

Useful Links:

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	This is the big one. It's like, what will they think of me?
0:02.2	Well, this feels like a threat. It feels dangerous to own who we are
0:06.9	because we're not sure if our group will accept us for who we are. So, Hey and welcome back to another episode of the
0:32.6	Relationship Schools podcast. I'm your host, Jason Gatis. What's up?
0:37.6	How are we doing today? Are we surviving or thriving people?
0:43.5	Just do our little check-in.
0:45.2	What's one word that describes you right now?
0:48.9	Just say that out loud, even if you're at the gym or driving alone in your car, just say it hello.
0:57.0	How are you doing?
0:58.0	Depressed, anxious, scared, happy, sad, angry, invigorated, you know, there's lots and lots on the menu.
1:07.0	All right, and if you're listening with someone, of course, you could turn to them and tell them how you're doing.
1:14.0	One word. And, you know, we want to get honest here.
1:16.0	Because most of us just say good, fine, that's cool, social graces.
1:20.0	But if we want to go deeper, we could just get more honest.
1:22.6	I'm doing shitty today.
1:24.0	You know, I'm stressed.
1:26.4	So, see if you can be honest.
1:30.0	Welcome back.
1:30.5	If you're returning.
1:31.7	Welcome, if you're new. Welcome if you're new.
1:32.8	This podcast is all about growing
1:35.4	through the vehicle of relationships,
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Jayson Gaddis, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Jayson Gaddis and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.