The 3 BIGGEST Relationship Mistakes You’re Making (& How to Fix Them!)

The School of Greatness

Lewis Howes

Entrepreneurship, Fitness, Inspiration, Greatness, Health, Money, Celebrity Interview, Self Care, Celebrity, Success, Mental Health, Relationships, Mindset, Health & Fitness, Education, Alternative Health, Business, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 26 July 2024

⏱️ 74 minutes

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I'll be hosting a LIVE WEBINAR THIS TUESDAY (7/30) all about creating ABUNDANCE in your life. Save your seat TODAY at https://lewishowes.com/abundance Have you saved your seats at Summit of Greatness 2024 yet?! Get them before they sell out at lewishowes.com/tickets In this episode of The School of Greatness, Lewis delves into the complexities of creating authentic relationships with three renowned relationship experts: Esther Perel, Michael Bungay Stanier, and Gary John Bishop. Esther Perel shares her insights on desire in long-term relationships and the changing dynamics of modern dating. She emphasizes the importance of shared values and the challenge of maintaining desire over time. Michael Bungay Stanier offers practical advice on becoming a better conversationalist, highlighting the power of curiosity and asking good questions to foster meaningful connections. Gary John Bishop discusses how to maintain individuality within relationships and the importance of personal responsibility in achieving a fulfilling partnership. Together, these experts provide a comprehensive guide to understanding and improving relationships by focusing on authenticity, communication, and self-awareness.

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0:00.0	Hey everyone this is Lewis House and I am so excited to invite you to the
0:04.0	Summit of Greatness 2024 happening at the iconic Shrine Auditorium in Los Angeles
0:09.8	California. This is more than just an event. It's a powerful experience designed to
0:14.3	ignite your passion, boost your growth, and connect you with a community of other
0:17.9	inspiring achievers. Join us Friday, September 13th and Saturday, September 14th for two days packed with inspiration and
0:25.1	transformation from some of the most incredible speakers on the planet. Don't miss out on this
0:29.8	chance to elevate your life, unlock your potential, and be part of something truly special.
0:34.8	Make sure to get your tickets right now and step into greatness with us at the Summit of Greatness
0:39.4	2024. Head over to Louis House.com slash tickets and get your tickets today
0:44.0	and I will see you there.
0:46.0	Why are relationships
0:48.0	seemingly so hard for so many people
0:51.0	when it's the thing we need the most to feel alive, to feel happy, and to feel connected.
0:57.0	This is the million dollar question, you know. I'm a relationship therapist for 35 plus years. I work with people in their romantic relationships,
1:06.8	family relationships, friendships, co-founder, colleagues, co-workers, so love and work work the two pillars of our life as Freud said and if I could just say why is the simple feeling of loving or caring not enough because the entire human drama is really complex
1:29.3	the same way as nature is complex, so is human nature complex.
1:35.0	And I spent my whole career studying what is changing in relationships,
1:42.0	you know, why are they more complicated today? Are they more
1:45.9	painful today? You know, have our expectations changed? And they're on, that I have answers too. I don't have answers to why is it so why you know but I do
1:57.9	Is it more complicated now relationships? Yes.
2:00.3	50 or 100 years ago? Yes. Yes. Yes. absolutely. Why is that?
2:02.7	Why for a very simple reason.
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