The #1 Sign Your Relationship Won’t Last | Esther Perel EP 137

The Daily Motivation

Lewis Howes

Education, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 22 January 2023

⏱️ 8 minutes

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http://www.lewishowes.com/mindset2023 - Order a copy of my new book The Greatness Mindset today! Esther Perel, Psychotherapist and Best-selling author shares the #1 sign your relationship won't last and how you can work to prevent it. Check out the full episode: https://link.chtbl.com/929-pod Sign up for the Greatness newsletter: http://www.greatness.com/newsletter

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0:00.0	Hi my name is Lewis Howes and welcome to the Daily Motivation Show.
0:07.0	If you feel like you're not living your most authentic life, not leaning into your purpose and not living the life that your future self would be extremely proud of, I've written a new book called The Greatness Mindset, and I think you're going to love this. Through powerful stories,
0:24.6	science back strategies and step-by-step guidance, The Greatness Mindsette will help you overcome all the different challenges
0:30.6	in your life to design the life of your dreams and then turn it into your reality.
0:35.5	Make sure to click the link in the description to get your copy today.
0:41.7	If you are a person that values relationships, that sees the presence of others in your life as central,
0:51.0	and you are with somebody who does not want community or does not know how
0:57.6	I'm talking not about what they would like to learn through you but their value is you do things alone you live alone you rely
1:05.8	on yourself you know you don't bring people over to the house I have a couple I just
1:10.0	spoke with yesterday you know he loves to have people over and she just nobody
1:15.2	should come over to the house once her space her space the whole thing and I'm thinking
1:19.6	wow this is a tough one it's not just about the house It's his whole life is about being with people and her whole life is about not being with people necessarily that's not how she experiences it.
1:31.0	Now the question is is she drawn to more of what he has to offer?
1:35.1	Okay, it's different values come together and they mix and match. But if you have
1:39.8	these two separations like that, so that's one. One of the beautiful questions I ask in
1:44.4	how is work, where you raised for autonomy or where you raised for loyalty? Were you
1:50.0	raised for self-reliance or were you raised for interdependence? I think that question
1:56.7	is a fundamentally interesting question that people can ask themselves when they partner
2:02.4	in business and in love.
2:04.8	Do you see yourself as connected to others and it's your connections that give you a sense of
2:10.2	anchoring, meaning, relevance, importance, it all of that? Or do you see yourself? of
2:13.2	an anchoring meaning relevance importance it all of that or do you see yourself as fundamentally on your own I think travel
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