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Subject Thanksgiving surprise. Dear Stephen Shirley, I'm a 57-year-old married man and I'm on my second marriage.

My wife has two daughters from a previous marriage and they're both grown and live in different cities.

The oldest daughter is 29 now and she has a one-year-old son.

My wife is looking forward to Thanksgiving because she will have the girls home and she can spend quality time with her grandson.

But I'm not excited about us all being under one roof because because I had an affair with the oldest daughter.

It started when she was 27 and she moved back in with us briefly to save some money.

She was very flirtatious and she'd rubbed my head when she hugged me and sit on my lap to talk to me

and call me handsome whenever her mom wasn't around. One night while her mom was asleep on the couch, she took a bath with the door cracked,

and I mistakenly went in to use the bathroom.

This was the first time we had sex, and I felt terrible, and so did she.

So she moved out the next week. My wife insisted that I help her move,

so I did, and we had sex the second time at her apartment. The affair went on for a while.

You ready for this? The affair went on for a while until she got pregnant.

We've had a paternity test, so I know it's my son, but my stepdaughter has her boyfriend thinking it's his son.

I've always wanted a child, but my first wife couldn't have children.

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