she'll either meet someone that she's like sustainably attracted to and be fine or she'll keep

kind of cycling through people and then end up alone or settling for something or it'll happen to

her exactly yeah that's what i mean she'll like hit hit the wall emotionally iotionally, I mean.

Yeah.

And come to see that like, yeah, maximizing for the best results isn't the best

strategy.

Yeah.

But it's hard.

You know when people say, like on Twitter somewhere, they're like the problem now

with like young people and like marriage and birth rates and dating and all this stuff is that everybody always wants to optimize.

Yeah.

And they don't want to settle and blah, blah, blah.

But it's like not that conscious.

It's not like people are making like Excel spreadsheets where they're like under six one need not apply.

Like under six figures need not apply like under six figures need

not apply nobody thinks like that no one's actually trying to optimize yeah in that way that's fake

I mean some people are I yeah but I bet you those people are the ones who actually end up being

successful in in marriage and procreation because they just have like a laundry

list of qualities and they like work in finance and they're like boom like yeah people that go to

like running clubs or use yeah yeah yeah no people like us are trying to optimize no like ever

yeah in any way

like none of our friends

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