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Passion Struck with John R. Miles

Tessa West on Why Your Career Is Like a Relationship EP 484

Passion Struck with John R. Miles

John R. Miles

Mental Health, Alternative Health, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.7 • 779 Ratings

🗓️ 23 July 2024

⏱️ 62 minutes

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Summary

In this insightful episode of Passion Struck, we welcome Dr. Tessa West, a Professor of Psychology at NYU and author of the enlightening book "Job Therapy: Finding Work That Works for You." Titled "Tessa West on Why Your Career Is Like a Relationship," this episode delves into the profound parallels between our careers and personal relationships.Dr. West explains how our emotional connections to our jobs are akin to those we have with our loved ones, filled with ups and downs, complexities, and deep psychological ties. She discusses the importance of understanding these dynamics to achieve career satisfaction and fulfillment. Drawing from her extensive research and real-world examples, Dr. West provides practical strategies for identifying and overcoming common career frustrations, such as identity crises, job drift, and feeling undervalued.Order a copy of my book, "Passion Struck: Twelve Powerful Principles to Unlock Your Purpose and Ignite Your Most Intentional Life," today!  Recognized as a 2024 must-read by the Next Big Idea Club, the book has won the Business Minds Best Book Award, the Eric Hoffer Award, the International Book Awards for Best Non-Fiction, the 2024 Melanie P. Smith Reader’s Choice Contest by Connections eMagazine, and the Non-Fiction Book Awards Gold Medal. Don't miss the opportunity to transform your life with these powerful principles!Full show notes and resources can be found here:  https://passionstruck.com/tessa-west-on-why-your-career-is-a-relationship/In this episode, you will learn:
  • Losses tend to loom larger than gains in the context of interviews
  • Importance of understanding psychological aspects of career dissatisfaction
  • How to identify different types of career dissatisfaction
  • Tips for reconnecting with work or deciding to move on
  • Importance of asking about past failures in job interviews
  • Strategies for breaking out of the busyness trap and being stretched too thin
  • The impact of risk-taking on career trajectories
  • Advice for those struggling to get out of their comfort zones
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Coming up next on Passion Struck.

0:02.0

Losses tend to loom larger than gains and most of the people you're speaking with will have some insight

0:08.0

into why the last person who took on this role failed at it.

0:12.0

In fact, they might have more insight

0:13.5

about what they did wrong or structurally

0:16.2

wasn't in place for them to succeed

0:18.5

than they will about what they did right.

0:20.3

In fact, we are much better giving failure feedback to people than we are giving positive reinforcing feedback.

0:26.4

And I think that's something a lot of a struggle with, it makes feedback hard, but you can

0:30.7

embrace that finding, that kind of losses loom larger than gains in the context of the interview and get unique insights about all of the things no one is telling you that will lead to your potential failure.

0:44.0

Welcome to Passion Struck.

0:45.0

Hi, I'm your host John R Miles and on the show we decipher the secrets, tips, and

0:51.0

guidance of the world's most inspiring people and turned their wisdom

0:55.1

into practical advice for you and those around you. Our mission is to help you

1:00.2

unlock the power of intentionality so that you can become the best version of yourself.

1:06.0

If you're new to the show, I offer advice and answer listener questions on Fridays.

1:11.0

We have long-form interviews the rest of the week with guests ranging

1:15.1

from astronauts to authors, CEOs, creators, innovators, scientists, military leaders,

1:21.7

visionaries, and athletes.

1:23.6

Now, let's go out there and become Passion Struck.

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Hello everyone and welcome back to episode 484 of Passion Struck.

1:31.6

A heartfelt thank you to each and every one of you who return to the show weekly, eager to listen, learn, and discover new ways to be better, to live better, and to make a meaningful impact in the world.

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