Terri Cole: High-Functioning Codependency—Breaking the Cycle

Sounds True: Insights at the Edge

Tami Simon

Spirituality, Religion & Spirituality

4.6 • 1.9K Ratings

🗓️ 15 October 2024

⏱️ 60 minutes

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Summary

High-functioning codependency? That's not an oxymoron. For psychotherapist Terri Cole, a pattern emerged in her practice that led her to take a deeper look at what we traditionally define as codependent. With her new book, Too Much, Terri introduces high-functioning codependency (or HFC)—illuminating the key traits and behaviors associated with HFC, how it gets passed from generation to generation, and how we can finally break the cycle to reclaim our time, energy, and independence. Join Sounds True founder Tami Simon in conversation with Terri Cole about: giving unsolicited advice; the habit of auto-accommodating; the FAQ "is this codependent, controlling, or caring?"; the compulsive nature of codependency; when efforts to help backfire; allowing others to experience the consequences of their actions; giving without resentment; how to know if you’re an HFC; taking a resentment inventory; the emotional drivers of HFC; the environmental factors that propagate codependency; self-awareness on the path of recovery; tolerating the discomfort of changing our behaviors; the connection between being easily defensive and HFC; letting go of defensiveness as an HFC; getting back to your "just right"; and more. Note: This episode originally aired on Sounds True One, where these special episodes of Insights at the Edge are available to watch live on video and with exclusive access to Q&As with our guests. Learn more at join.soundstrue.com. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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0:00.0	Hello, friends. My name's Tammy Simon and I'm the founder of Sounds True, and I want to welcome you to the Sounds True podcast, Insights at the Edge.
0:12.0	I also want to take a moment to introduce you to Sounds True's new membership community and digital platform.
0:18.9	It's called Sounds True One.
0:21.7	Sounds True One features original, premium, transformational docu series, community events,
0:29.0	classes to start your day and relax in the evening, special weekly live shows,
0:36.0	including a video version of Insights at the Edge with an after-show
0:41.3	community question and answer session with featured guests. I hope you'll come join us,
0:47.6	explore, come have fun with us, and connect with others. You can learn more at join.
0:53.7	at join.strue.com.
0:56.4	I also want to take a moment and introduce you to the Sounds True Foundation, our nonprofit,
1:02.0	that creates equitable access to transformational tools and teachings. You can learn more
1:09.5	at SoundsTrueFoundation.org. And in advance, thank you for your
1:14.6	support. In this episode of Insights at the Edge, my guest is Terry Cole. Terry is a dynamic
1:24.8	writer and educator. She has a special gift for making complex psychological concepts
1:32.7	actionable and accessible. She's a licensed psychotherapist, a global relationship expert,
1:40.9	and the author of Boundary Boss and the Boundary Boss workbook.
1:46.8	She's also the host of the popular podcast, The Terry Cole Show, and she's the author
1:52.8	of a new book from Sounds True, and that's what we're going to be talking about in this edition
1:57.8	of Insights at the Edge. It's called Too Much a Guide to Breaking the Cycle
2:03.8	of High Functioning Codependency. And you can learn more about this new book and receive
2:10.4	special bonus gifts when you go to HFC, high functioning codependency, that's what the initials stand for,
2:20.3	HFCBook.com.
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