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Sex With Emily

Tell Me What You Want (In Bed) with Dr. Justin Lehmiller

Sex With Emily

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

4.36.8K Ratings

🗓️ 26 October 2018

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

On today’s show, Emily is joined by Dr. Justin Lehmiller – a leading expert on human sexuality – to talk about his book, Tell Me What You Want: The Science of Sexual Desire and How it Can Help You Improve Your Sex Life. They discuss sexual fantasies, what they mean, and why it’s totally okay to have them (psst, we all do). Plus, they get into the benefits of sharing your fantasies with your partner, what the top ones are around the U.S., and the difference between men and women – and the similarities, too. Thank you for supporting our sponsors who help keep the show FREE: Hot Octopuss, Womanizer, Fleshlight, Adam & Eve Follow Emily on all social: @sexwithemily Follow Dr. Lehmiller on Instagram: @justinjlehmiller For more of Dr. Lehmiller, visit: sexandpsychology.com For even more sex advice, tips & tricks, visit: sexwithemily.com   Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Thanks for listening to Sex with Emily. On today's show, I'm joined by Dr. Justin Lameller,

0:04.9

a leading expert on human sexuality to talk about his book, Tell Me What You Want,

0:09.2

the Science of Sexual Desire, and how it can help you improve your sex life. Topics include,

0:14.2

Why are we have sexual fantasies and what they mean? Why you're totally normal and it's okay to

0:19.5

have them and the benefits of sharing them with a partner? What your fantasies say about your

0:23.2

personality, the differences and similarities between men and women, and why it's so much better

0:28.4

to talk about or act out our desires than to repress them. All this and more, thanks for listening.

0:37.2

Look into his eyes. They're the eyes of a man obsessed by sex. Eyes that mock our sacred

0:45.2

institutions, bedroom eyes. They call them a lie on a day. Hey, Emily, you got a boyfriend?

0:50.9

Because my man E here, he just got his heart broken, he thinks you're kind of cute.

0:54.3

The girls got a hair stand. Oh my. The women know about shrinkage.

0:58.0

Isn't it common knowledge? What do you mean like laundry? It shrinks?

1:00.6

Can we not talk about sex so much? Are you kidding me? Oh my god, I'm so, so, so, so,

1:06.1

being bad feels pretty good. But you know, Emily's not the kind of girl you just play with.

1:13.0

You're listening to Sex with Emily. We're talking about sex, relationships, and everything

1:18.0

in between. If you want to know more about sex with Emily, check out our blogs, our site,

1:21.6

it's at sexwithemily.com. You can find us wherever you're listening to podcasts these days,

1:27.1

Spotify, Google Play, IR Radio, everywhere. We love when you come up to do subscribe on iTunes.

1:32.8

That's awesome. And you can also find us on social media. It's at Sex with Emily across the board,

1:38.0

Instagram, Facebook, and Twitter. And you guys, I have an exciting, really exciting announcement

1:45.0

coming up. So stay tuned. I'll be making this announcement in the next 10 days. So check back.

1:50.7

We're hearing a podcast. And today's show I'm really excited. So it's all about you and your

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