This is a show about individual experience and personal identity.

There may be times when folks use identifying words or phrases that don't feel right to you.

That's part of what we're exploring here.

Please listen with an open heart, and as always, I welcome your polite, engaged feedback,

and I encourage you to continue the conversation in your own life and with your own community.

Welcome to Query.

Query.

Query Rose, Cammy here.

Oh my god, I'm incredibly excited to tell you that you can pre-order my book.

I have a book coming up.

It is about having a needing disorder and dating the captain of the football team

and realizing that I was gay while attending a Catholic college where I could not come out

at the same time as all the stuff in the movie spotlight happened.

It is funny, it is serious, it is lovely, it is called Save Yourself.

I'm very proud of it.

It comes out in March, March 2020, but you can pre-order it right now by going to SaveYourselfbook.com.

Please get those pre-orders in.

It helps me make the New York Times bestseller list.

So I am going to mention this probably on every query until March.

I'm going to be out doing a big book tour that is yet to be announced and get behind this book.

If you listen to this show, you could do me such a solid.

If everybody listened to this show, bought the book, it would be a bestseller.

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