share a model with you on how I think people can understand that a little more because everybody wants to be in flow.

Everybody wants to, you know, would love the effortless life and for most people the reality is somewhat far from it.

So if I was to give a model that could actually add some value hopefully to the people watching,

it would be taken from Einstein's most famous quote, which is you can never solve a problem at the same level of

thinking that created it. It sounds esoteric it sounds like it makes sense but

not many people know how to actualize that into reality to make it practical.

So in all of my years and personal development what I've

tended to see now I've chunked into four different levels of thinking, four

different levels of consciousness if you can put it that way. And the first one is

what I would call the victim mentality, which is kind of

a to me mentality. And you know everything would be great in my life, but you know everything

happens to me. Right. And you see it a lot it's yeah

totally it's subtle sometimes sometimes someone's telling you a story and after four

minutes you're like wait a second you're the victim in this story 100% but

it's continuing and a lot of people get their You're the victim in this story. 100%.

But anyway, and a lot of people get their sense of connection

and significance out of how much of a victim they can be.

It's there if they don't have any other outlets.

So for many people victim is a is almost a byproduct of just letting life happen to you.

Now what personal development does it's very good at being able to take people from a victim

mode and getting them into an achiever mode where people start to take on a level of personal

responsibility and that's what I call by me.

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