When I was younger I was like 12 or 13 I was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure so at that time that doctor told me that I couldn't have kids and so you know I talked about this in the way of like at that age you think that your womanhood is characterized by pregnancy and your body and that's what we're sold. So at that time, I definitely didn't have no body and now I'm being told that I can't get pregnant.

And so I think that took away the blanket that a lot of women feel like were able to stay under

of feeling like, oh, I'm a woman because I have a body and because I can get

pregnant and I had to find out what womanhood really meant to me and so I spent a

lot of my teen years reading and crying and healing and going on a journey of unlearning what is taught to us as young women in society. Welcome to the Dr Dap show. Today I have a very beautiful special guest with me

Tati Kokli. Tati Kocley is a YouTube content creator with a catalog of videos giving advice on

dating, friendship, self-confidence, self-love, and she helps women to understand their interactions with men and

cultivate love for their own lives. She is super honest, transparent,

or relatable, and such a light on YouTube.

Welcome, Tati!

Thank you so much for having me.

That was quite the intro.

It's the truth.

Thank you.

It's the truth. You're such a light. I really enjoy your content and I just love the transparency in everything that you share and I know so many people appreciate you coming and sharing the things that you've been through to help guide them through their 20-somethings.

Thanks! I needed it. I was thinking like when I was starting my channel and everything I wanted to be the big sister that I didn't have.

So I think it's nice now because a lot of my audience is a lot of young women, 20-somethings, trying to figure it out and I've been there I'm still there so I think it's nice

for me to be able to speak from a place from experience but also let them grow up

with me that that makes sense and I can tell they're doing. Well you do have a lot of wisdom that you share. How did you gain this

wisdom and knowledge that you share on your channel? Crazy enough, I just recently told this story like on my platforms, but when I was younger, I was like 12 or 13, I was diagnosed with premature ovarian failure.

So at that time, that doctor told me that I couldn't have kids.

And so, you know, I talked about this in the way of like,

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