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Focus on the Family Equipping Parents Podcast

Talking to Your Pre-Teens About Sex – Part 1

Focus on the Family Equipping Parents Podcast

Focus on the Family

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.41K Ratings

🗓️ 23 April 2024

⏱️ 8 minutes

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Summary

Having the sex talk with your kids can be awkward, but it's important for them to hear about it from you as their parent first. Danny shares with John about what age is a good time to have the talk with your kids. Plus, Jim Daly speaks with a group of parents about things they learned when talking to their kids about sexuality.

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0:00.0

Well talking to your children about sex can be kind of awkward, but if you don't give the input

0:07.9

they're going to hear it from somewhere else.

0:10.2

And we want to encourage you to get ahead of this and to have those important conversations.

0:15.2

I'm John Fuller along with Dr. Danny where to who heads up the focus on the family parenting

0:19.6

department. Danny about what age do you as a counselor encourage parents to have the talk with their

0:26.0

kids?

0:27.0

Yeah, and you just said, John, to not run away from this whole thing.

0:30.1

It is so important to begin conversations at an early age that surround the topic of the talk and not just all of a sudden you're into this talk.

0:39.0

But 8 to 12 is generally the range that most parents step into this talk and then the conversation that

0:46.2

leads to more talks and more conversation around this.

0:50.9

Some parents have chosen to begin the talk or have done the talk at seven at eight.

0:56.6

I think there's a lot of wisdom to that, especially if your child is more mature than the

1:00.8

average seven or eight year old.

1:02.0

Step into that. and air more on the side of

1:05.6

bringing it sooner than later because you're introducing it to something beautiful

1:09.4

in God's creation. Yeah and Focus President Jim Daly talked with Shauna Hudson, Alan Slopman and Nick DuPont.

1:15.8

They all worked through the curriculum called Launch Into the Teen Years, which is all about this

1:20.9

kind of topic, and they shared their experience of talking with their children about sexuality.

1:25.0

sexuality.

1:26.0

You know, God's design for sex is a beautiful thing.

1:30.0

It's one of those things that the world has totally manipulated right and the big pornography industry

1:36.4

and all those kinds of things but God attended this to be a wonderful gift in the context of marriage

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