Talk About Sex Before Having It
Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
4.5 • 608 Ratings
🗓️ 10 January 2023
⏱️ 77 minutes
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Summary
I’m joined by Tatiana Fogt, sexuality educator and host of Bedside, a podcast series & activist platform, where she explores sexual health & wellness in the digital age. We discuss having non awkward dialogues surrounding sex, setting clear boundaries, and assessing someone’s intentions. Tatiana answers listener questions about porn consumption, whether you should discuss how you would handle an unplanned pregnancy before having sex with someone, what to do if your sex drive and your partner’s sex drive don’t match up, and more.
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| 0:00.0 | This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation. |
| 0:08.1 | Hey guys, it's Alana and welcome back for another episode of seeing other people. |
| 0:13.5 | Okay, first of all, I feel like we're back in 2020 because every other person that I know has COVID. |
| 0:19.6 | So just want to say, I hope you guys are healthy. |
| 0:21.5 | I hope everyone's doing well. And if you are sick, I'm so sorry, hang in there. A few shows I've been |
| 0:26.0 | watching recently that I think are so bingeworthy and perfect for a sick week. Bad Sisters on Apple TV |
| 0:32.1 | is literally an amazing show. I'm obsessed with it. Collidcope on Netflix. If you're into heist shows, |
| 0:38.1 | it is really fascinating and I'm really enjoying it. And if you just want an easy watch, honestly, |
| 0:43.0 | like New Girl never fails. Jake and I've been watching it every day before bed, and we just love |
| 0:47.3 | it so much. So again, hope you guys are doing well. Hope you are healthy. I had a horrible cold last week which i thought was a cold and here's the thing |
| 0:57.0 | about me i get like five sinus infections a year and that's just been that way for the last like 10 years |
| 1:02.8 | of my life and i should have known you guys i should have known that this was a sinus infection |
| 1:07.9 | showing up on january first saying hey alana welcome to 2023 get used to it but i just thought it was a sinus infection showing up on January 1st saying, hey, Alana, welcome to 2023, get used to it. But I just thought it was a cold. And so I just suffered all week. It kept getting worse and just not going away. I literally had to cancel four recordings last week because I couldn't do them. I was too nasally. I was too sneezing and stuffy. And finally, on Saturday morning, I was like, all right, this is not going away. I went to |
| 1:28.0 | urgent care. They were like, yeah, you have a sinus infection. I'm like, yeah, I should have known. |
| 1:32.2 | So we're finally on antibiotics now, and we are finally starting to feel some relief, which is really, |
| 1:37.3 | really nice. I kind of fucked up a little bit. I was supposed to have a really chill, relaxing |
| 1:43.9 | recovery weekend. That was my goal. Jake really chill, relaxing recovery weekend. |
| 1:45.3 | That was my goal. |
| 1:46.8 | Jake and I went into this weekend with zero plans. |
| 1:49.5 | And then once I got the antibiotics, I'm like, okay, like, let me just chill, give my |
| 1:52.9 | body some time to recover. |
| 1:55.3 | But then that's not exactly what happened. |
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