Take Your Sex Life from Stale to Sexy, Part 1

Sex With Emily

Health & Fitness, Sexuality

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🗓️ 11 January 2022

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

It’s the #1 question I get as a sex educator: “our sex life is stale, how do we make it hot again?” For long-term couples, this issue is so common it’s almost a cliche. “Once you’re married, say goodbye to your sex life! Haha!”

Except, it’s not funny, right? It’s actually pretty painful, once the new relationship energy wears off, and we no longer have that magical chemical cocktail running through our veins. That’s why I am so pleased to be doing a two-part, Best Of special on this precise topic, kicking things off with sex educator Ian Kerner, author of the iconic book “She Comes First” and his latest, “So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex?” I’m also sharing advice from Drs. John and Julie Gottman of the Gottman Institute, who have led some of the most comprehensive studies on successful couples, and the key ingredients of their success. (Which includes a great sex life, of course.) I’m pulling out the best-of-the-best of their advice and techniques, so you can try them yourself, and create your own “arousal runway” to bring excitement back into your relationship and the bedroom.

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0:00.0	Everything takes priority over the relationship.
0:06.4	Essentially, relationships die by being ignored.
0:10.6	80% of them said that fun had come to die in their relationship.
0:16.2	You're listening to Sex with Emily.
0:19.2	I'm Dr. Emily and I'm here to help you prioritize your pleasure and liberate the conversation around sex.
0:26.0	It's the number one question I get asked as a sex educator.
0:29.4	Our sex life is still.
0:30.8	How do we make it hot again?
0:32.8	Well, for long-term couples, this issue is so common.
0:36.2	It's almost a cliche.
0:38.0	Once you're married, say goodbye to your sex life.
0:40.7	Ha ha.
0:41.6	Except it's not funny, right?
0:44.1	It's actually pretty painful.
0:46.1	Once the new relationship energy wears off and we no longer have that magical,
0:50.3	chemical cocktail running through our veins,
0:53.1	well, that's why I'm so pleased to be doing a two-part,
0:56.1	best-of-special on this precise topic.
0:59.2	Kicking things off with sex educator Ian Karner,
1:02.4	author of the iconic book, She Comes First,
1:05.3	and is latest, so tell me about the last time you had sex.
1:08.9	I'm also sharing advice from doctors John and Julie Gottman of the Gottman Institute,
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