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Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Tahiry & The Controlling Spiritual Abuser - Narcissist Abuse, Domestic Violence

Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse

Abuse Survivor Network

Education, Relationships, Self-improvement, True Crime, Society & Culture

4.7 • 792 Ratings

🗓️ 23 November 2023

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Tahiry was in a long-distance relationship with a spiritual leader, but it wasn't until they moved in with each other that Tahiry started learning about his controlling and abusive behavior. As Tahiry did her best to cope with the abuse, she uncovered that her partner was also a sexual predator, using her as cover as he assaulted women in the spiritual community. It's a story of facades, being used, spiritual abuse, blame shifting, putdowns, sexual assault, addiction, hierarchies, predatory behavior, ptsd, and guilt by association. *** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse and sexual assault. *** If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com To help out our podcast, please fill out our listener survey, click here. Thank you to our sponsor BETTERHELP. If you need online counseling from anywhere in the world, please do go to https://www.betterhelp.com/nap Get started today and enjoy 10% off your first month. If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.  If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.).  To reach them, click here. Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

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0:25.9

On this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, we talk with an abuse survivor named Tahiri, and Tahiri was in a relationship with a controlling spiritual abuser.

0:36.5

It's a story of facades, sexual assault,

0:40.0

addiction, blame shifting, and guilt by association. Welcome to Narcissist Apocalypse, everyone.

1:06.0

I am Brandon Chadwick, and with me today, we have Tahiri. How are you? I'm getting great. How are you?

1:14.8

I am doing well. Thank you for asking. And if you want to be a guest like Tahiri is today,

1:21.2

please do go to our website at Narcissistapocalypse.com. Top of the page, there's a button that says

1:26.7

guest form. When you click on that

1:28.3

button, it takes you to our guest form page. There, you can read all of our instructions and either

1:33.1

send us an email at Narcissist Apocalypse.g.com or fill out our guest form and press to submit

1:38.6

button, and please do send it in the format that we ask for, and we can't have enough story. So please

1:43.9

do send those in. And a content

1:46.5

warning for this episode as we do discuss sexual assault in this episode on a couple of occasions

1:54.8

as well as physical abuse in this episode. So there is your content warning there. And this episode today you are about to hear

2:04.6

has actually been in the vault for about three years, almost three years now. It was on the

2:10.6

shorter end at the time and we weren't putting out shorter episodes at that time. But now our Friday episodes are shorter.

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