This is a show about individual experience and personal identity.

There may be times when folks use identifying words or phrases that don't feel right to you.

That's part of what we're exploring here.

Please listen with an open heart, and as always, I welcome your polite, engaged feedback,

and I encourage you to continue the conversation in your own life and with your own community.

Welcome to Query.

Hey Query, I was Cammy here.

Well, I got a Christmas tree.

Katie and I went at basically the middle of the night because we didn't want there to

be as healing people there.

We had a Christmas tree, and I hope it lives.

I hope it lives at all.

It's really making me feel cheery.

I also want to say that somebody sent me a message that I should spell patreon.com, which

is p-a-t-r-e-o-n dot com slash hey, H-y, Queeros, Q-u-e-e-r-o-e-s.

They were spelling it with Queryos with no e, hey, hey, Queeros with no o-e-s.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is, why do I keep talking about patreon?

Y'all have supported this show enough that I can up-see Eras pay a little bit and make

it a little bit more fair.

And she's just such an amazing job helping to produce this podcast.

It's really wonderful to be able to do that.

And I also want to say we added somebody suggested that we add a $1 patron tier.

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