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Something You Should Know

SYSK Choice: The Secrets to Better Conversation & A Better Way to Meet Deadlines

Something You Should Know

Mike Carruthers | OmniCastMedia

Education, Social Sciences, Science, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness

4.54.3K Ratings

🗓️ 9 September 2023

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Every day, you make a countless number of decisions, from what to have for dinner to what detergent to buy. This episode begins by looking at how humans make decisions and choices in life and how to recognize which ones you are probably wasting too much time on. https://fs.blog/2014/09/the-history-of-cognitive-overload You likely spend a good portion of your day in conversation with other people. Yet, we seldom detect what is happening “under the radar” in those conversations – and there is a lot going on. Listen and meet Elizabeth Stokoe, a social psychologist who spent 20 years transcribing and analyzing real conversations people have and discovered some rather amazing things that happen when we people talk with each other. What she discovered will surprise you and help you be a better conversationalist. Elizabeth is author of the book, Talk: The Science of Conversation (https://amzn.to/3A2ShXQ). Deadlines are interesting. Without them a lot of things would never get done. Yet, some of us wait until the very last minute to do what needs to be done even though we could’ve started it a lot sooner. There must be a better way to meet deadlines and according to Christopher Cox – there is! Christopher is author of the book The Deadline Effect: How to Work Like It’s the Last Minute―Before the Last Minute (https://amzn.to/3ty01P3). As a former magazine editor for many years, Christopher was constantly dealing with deadlines. Listen to what he discovered so that you might just change your ways the next time a deadline is looming. Like everyone else, you probably talk to yourself. So, is it a good idea to listen to whatever you tell yourself when you talk to yourself? Listen as I discuss the benefits of talking to yourself and why it is even better if you do it out loud. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/09/100921110956.htm PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! PrizePicks is a skill-based, real-money Daily Fantasy Sports game. You pick 2-6 players and if they will go more or less than their PrizePicks projection. It's that simple! Go to https://prizepicks.com/sysk and use code sysk for a first deposit match up to $100 Anxious thoughts seem to happen at the worst time. It's important to try and get out of those negative thought cycles. If you’re thinking of starting therapy, give BetterHelp a try. It’s entirely online, so it’s convenient, flexible, and suited to your schedule. Just fill out a brief questionnaire to get matched with a licensed therapist. Get a break from your negative thoughts with BetterHelp Visit https://BetterHelp.com/SOMETHING today to get 10% off your first month! Now, your ideas don't have to wait, now, they have everything they need to come to life. Dell Technologies and Intel are pushing what technology can do, so great ideas can happen - right now! Find out how to bring your ideas to life at https://Dell.com/WelcomeToNow Planet Money is an incredible podcast with entertaining stories and insights about how money shapes our world. Listen to Planet Money https://npr.org/podcasts/510289/planet-money wherever you get your podcasts! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

Pantsy mini cheddar. They don't get cheddar than this.

0:04.0

Mmm! Could be the greatest cheese snack ever!

0:08.0

They might well breed.

0:10.0

I just wish I had my own packet.

0:12.0

Gives another? No chance. You're better by your own.

0:14.0

Well, that's mature.

0:16.0

Add some cheese to the moment, with mini-chedders baked with real cheese.

0:22.0

Today, on something you should know,

0:24.0

a great way to handle all the decisions you have to make today.

0:28.0

Then, how human conversation really works,

0:32.0

and it's different than what most people believe.

0:34.0

People build things like communication training,

0:38.0

and assessment based on good intentions,

0:40.0

and the kinds of things that people say constitute a good conversation.

0:44.0

But actually, when you look at what people are really doing,

0:48.0

it's something else.

0:50.0

Also, why talking to yourself out loud is such a great idea.

0:54.0

And how to handle deadlines.

0:56.0

Especially if you tend to put things off to the last minute.

1:00.0

People are productive at the last minute.

1:02.0

I guess what I just reject is this notion that the only way to create

1:06.0

that kind of pressure for yourself is to wait to the actual real last minute.

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