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Something You Should Know

SYSK Choice: Optimize Your Memory & How to Get the Love You Want

Something You Should Know

Mike Carruthers | OmniCastMedia

Science, Self-improvement, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Education

4.54.3K Ratings

🗓️ 5 June 2021

⏱️ 43 minutes

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Summary

Have you heard the advice that couples should have a date night. That’s common advice to help keep the romance alive in long term relationships. But interestingly, “couple time” is not the highest quality time couples can have. In fact it doesn’t even come in second. Listen as I explain another way couples can spend their time that is much more beneficial and rewarding. https://www.businessinsider.com/double-dates-improve-relationship-2018-2 Do you know how to make your memory work to your advantage? If you have ever had your memory fail at exactly the wrong time, listen to my guest Michael Tipper, author of the book Instant Recall (https://amzn.to/2X00YPv). Michael won the silver medal in the World Memory Championship by remembering 9 decks of playing cards in order! He joins me to offer some excellent techniques to help you understand and use your memory to your best advantage. You know that little front pocket that sits inside the big front pocket on blue jeans? Do you know why it is there and what it is for? The idea for that pocket came from Levi Strauss and when you listen you will hear what the original intended use was – which by the way is pretty much obsolete today. http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/fashion/what-that-little-pocket-in-your-jeansis-really-for-a6828141.html There are a lot of people in relationships who are not getting what they want from their partner. Why is that? What happens in relationships that results in that seemingly inevitable path of negativity, criticism and conflict – and how do you fix it? Harville Hendrix has been working with couples for a long time to help them break free from the negativity that so often takes over in long term relationships. Harville is a practicing therapist and author of several books including the newly revised version of Getting the Love You Want (https://amzn.to/2IbSbXq) which was a huge bestseller when it first came out several years ago. He joins me to reveal what causes relationships to go off-track and how to instantly change how couples interact so the negativity stops. PLEASE SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS! We really enjoy The Jordan Harbinger Show and we think you will as well! There’s just SO much here. Check out https://jordanharbinger.com/start for some episode recommendations, OR search for The Jordan Harbinger Show on Apple Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you listen to podcasts.  Save time, money, and stress with Firstleaf – the wine club designed with you in mind! Join today and you’ll get 6 bottles of wine for $29.95 and free shipping! Just go to https://tryfirstleaf.com/SOMETHING https://nuts.com is the simple and convenient way to have nutritious, delicious, healthy nuts, dried fruit, flours, grains and so many other high-quality foods delivered straight to your door! New Nuts.com customers get free shipping on your first order when you text SYSK to 64-000. So text SYSK to 64-000 to get free shipping on your first order from Nuts.com With Grove, making the switch to natural products has never been easier! Go to https://grove.co/SOMETHING and choose a free gift with your 1st order of $30 or more! Go Daddy lets you create your website or store for FREE right now at https://godaddy.com Go to https://RockAuto.com right now and see all the parts available for your car or truck. Write SOMETHING in their “How did you hear about us?” box so they know we sent you! Discover matches all the cash back you earn on your credit card at the end of your first year automatically and is accepted at 99% of places in the U.S. that take credit cards! Learn more at https://discover.com/yes https://www.geico.com Bundle your policies and save! It's Geico easy! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Today on something you should know, couples are often told to have a date night to keep the romance

0:38.8

alive, but there's something even better. Then the power of your memory, it starts with understanding

0:45.0

how it works. To give you an example of that, typically say to me, well, I've read this page in

0:50.0

a book or in a magazine and I can't remember anything. Well, that's only because you've just

0:54.6

done enough to read and understand it. You haven't actually done enough to remember it because

0:59.7

there are a few more stages you've got to do in order to put it into your memory. Plus, what's that

1:04.4

little pocket inside the big pocket on blue jeans? And so much of the trouble in relationships is

1:10.9

we don't know how to listen. Consensus right now on accuracy of listening is that most people in a

1:17.6

condition of relaxation haven't about 18 to 20% accuracy rate in receiving what somebody else said.

1:25.2

If they're upset, they have zero. All this today on something you should know.

1:32.4

I've entered the Rick and Morty multiverse so many times at all for that I don't know whether I'm Rick

1:39.0

Morty. Am I Rick? Am I Morty? Am I me? Am I Rick? Am I Morty? Am I me? I don't know. What's now on all

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for the UK's biggest free streaming service? What's in rewatch? What's in rewatch?

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Go see me. Comterichel4.com slash verify.

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Something you should know. Fascinating intel. The world's top experts.

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And practical advice you can use in your life today. Something you should know with my

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carothers. I welcome to something you should know and interesting and fun episode for you today.

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