Hi, Chantel.

Roxanne.

It's been a chaotic morning.

Oh, what did your kids do?

Oh my gosh, I don't know.

The kids woke up late, L woke up and it was just it was a lot but speaking of all guess what I'm doing today with her

What are you doing? I'm getting her ears pierced. Oh gosh I know you know that he really videos. Well, you know it's like really controversial to get your kids ears pierced like when they're babies. Oh, is it like our parents did it with us? So like and I feel like everyone does it but but that's

because like everyone we know is like you know our culture so what's

controversial about it like the fact that it hurts them or like is there

something that we think happens? People just think like your piercing, you know someone's, like your kid's body and

they don't have an option to say if they want it or not.

Mmm.

No. Well, you guys haven't met our culture, okay?

They don't, it never mattered what we wanted or anything, but...

You know, I never thought of it that way, actually.

Yeah, some people do. I I get it I really do I get both like if you didn't if like you grew up and you're like okay why did you do that to me mom like I don't think anyone does that but just don't wear your earrings. It's not like it shows.

Yeah, you know what?

I swear to God, I am so grateful that my mom did it

when I was a baby, because first hop,

when you're a baby, you don't feel the pain.

I mean, yeah, you'll feel it, you'll forget though forget though right and you'll have an ear

in your ear for so long that let's say there were times where I stopped wearing earrings

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