Suffering Equals Success In Life, But Not In Relationships
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 9 April 2026
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeWhy suffering leads to success in life but not in relationships.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who’s new to my work. He shares how just one read through of 3% Man, has changed his perspective from thinking he was cursed when it comes to women to realizing that there is nothing wrong with him. He simply had a bad dating, relationship and attraction strategy.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1
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| 0:28.6 | hi I'm coach Corey Wayne and this is my video coaching newsletter and the topic of today's |
| 0:35.6 | newsletter is going to be, suffering equals success |
| 0:39.1 | in life, but not in relationships. So this particular email is from a viewer. He's, I believe |
| 0:47.6 | he's in his late 40s, if I remember right? He's a former US Army Special Forces member. And multiple combat deployments spent a lot of time in the |
| 0:57.9 | sandbox in the Middle East. And so he grew up in a not-so-perfect environment at home. And so he's only |
| 1:05.7 | been through my book one time. He just found my work recently. But after going through it, he just |
| 1:10.3 | had a lot of epiphanies |
| 1:11.7 | and realized what he was doing to unknowingly sabotage the relationships or budding relationships |
| 1:19.6 | that he's had with women his whole life and he thought maybe he was cursed because in his family |
| 1:24.5 | and what he learned from his mother was that suffering in relationships |
| 1:28.5 | basically leads to good outcomes in other words you suffer you're going to have success when it comes |
| 1:35.4 | to business or accomplishing hard things or like in his case becoming a green beret that toughness |
| 1:40.8 | that mental and emotional toughness that he learned to deal with in childhood |
| 1:46.6 | really helped him deal with the Special Forces selection course. |
| 1:52.6 | In addition to anything else he went after in life. |
| 1:54.8 | However, when he took that same approach that in relationships, well, suffering is just part of the process, |
| 2:00.8 | he made himself miserable, thought he was cursed, thought is just part of the process. He made himself miserable, |
| 2:02.4 | thought he was cursed, thought there was something wrong with him, led to bad thoughts. But after |
| 2:08.4 | reading my book, he realized that all he really, there's nothing wrong with him. The only problem |
| 2:14.8 | was is that he had a bad dating and relationship |
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