The reluctant king theory is the person who doesn't want to be king needs to be king.

Okay.

And the person who doesn't want to be king, doesn't want to be big, is actually the person

who's best suited to lead people.

You know, some people want to help you as long as you stay at or below them.

I just don't rock like that, and that's why I sleep well, because I

ain't, I ain't hating on nobody and I ain't worried about nobody. When it's time for bed, I go to bed

quit because I'm free and peaceful. What's up, family? It's your girl, Sarah Jakes-Roberts,

and we are back with another episode of the Woman Evol podcast. What's going on with you? How you feeling? I am feeling like I deserve a cookie because I worked out today. And I know you're like, girl, you work out. She don't work out. The work does her. You understand what I'm saying? She doesn't work out. But I worked out today and I went on a little walk and I just feel like I deserve a cookie because that's the stage of my life. I don't know. Well, I do know what happened. My rhythm has been thrown off. I'm trying

to get back in the saddle, but also trying to be like patient with myself and all of the things.

It's just a lot going on, which actually ties into this week's mind your business question.

So before I like, I'm not going to call it trauma dump, but before I tell you what

what I've had to come to in order to get to where I am right now, I want to play this week's

question. So let's get into it.

Hi, Sarah. My name is Kuchana. It's really funny that I'm calling because I've been thinking about

it for a while.

But first of all, thank you for your platform and your voice.

So let me just get into a season by my business.

I know that you've mentioned that you've gone back to school.

And though I'm currently taking a break, looking at my computer, like, what did I get myself into um and so my question is how do you push through to get the hard things done like when it comes to your relationship with

god and how you approach um you know, your schoolwork and everything.

Like, what does that look like? Because I am struggling and I am doing my best to, you know,

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