And I, he hands up to me and I walk into the bedroom and I'm like, please God, please God, please God, don't let them be dirty.

Right. Like, please let them be clean. And they were not clean.

Okay, what's up, everybody? I am very, very excited for my guest today. She's an actress, a best-selling author and a lady gang member. Ladies and gentlemen, I have Becca Tobin.

Hi. Hello. This is very exciting. It's, are you kidding me? I'm like the biggest, craziest housewives fan that ever existed. And I have like so many opinions. And I've always been a Melissa stand. So really? Oh my God. Look at that. We're just going to like love each other right, right from the bat. Did you always watch Jersey? Like from the beginning as well? I watched from the beginning. I took a little bit of a break. I think I took a break kind of like maybe around Dolores.

This first season, like that. There was like twins that came in at one point that everybody just fell off at that point. And then they came back. Yeah, that's what happened to me. I was like, I don't know who these, I didn't know who the twins were. But then this last season of Jersey, I was just telling a friend of mine, I was like, if you're going to do any bravo show right now, this last season of Jersey is so wild and so entertaining. It's like probably the one of my favorites of all time.

Thank you. I know. I think everyone has been saying that and we're actually filming the next season right now. And I just came out. I'll just a little hint to all my listeners out there as well.

Oh, did I just come off a weekend of like crazy madness. Like no, it's just insane. Like we never seem to and it comes naturally. Like our show is not scripted. No producer told us to do this. Like it just happens. It's crazy. You can't make it up.

And sometimes I get baffled because every season going into the Jersey housewives. I'm always like, what are we going to film. I mean, come on. We've said this all. We've done this all like what's left. And there's always something which baffles me every time.

Well, real quick for all my housewives fans. What other shows you watch besides Jersey.

I watched Beverly Hills housewives because that's also that's a little bit different. This season of Beverly Hills is a little bit of a bummer, but not such a bummer.

They don't want to watch or just kind of bummed out the whole time. Right. Like Jersey's just fun. Like even when there's drama. It's entertaining and and you guys are so good at moving forward.

Like you have a really great ability of like getting into it, really getting into it. And then kind of having a way of like moving forward and having fun. Whereas other like franchises, they just don't do it.

And it feels forced except I thought that and then I watched your reunion. And I was like, wait, some shit is still like brewing. We haven't moved past anything.

But I watch housewives. I watched Beverly Hills. What what a Dubai. I can't get into it.

I am my mother just said that to me too. I don't know why she's like, I just can't like, I don't know. It's different. I feel like it's a little different.

She says that they're like, I haven't watched really much that they're just super, super rich. And they just go to lunch all day. Is that the fact that's the thing is I'm like, there's not enough characters like I need.

I don't need you to just be rich. I need you to be rich, but also be really eccentric eccentric or or at least like witty.

Because if you're going to be the grounded like I find you to be one of the most grounded voice of reason in the cast, but you're entertaining because you're commentary on everything is is witty and it's funny like it's just

There aren't really any duds in any of the other cast whereas right now I just sort of feel a little bored with Dubai.

Got you. Got you. Yeah, you know what that I always say that it's hard to find the perfect balance when you are the level headed girl on the show and you still it's hard.

Sometimes to stay at the forefront if you're going to be not the crazy because you don't always get applauded for not showing you know the crazy, but I've always said I found a way with Joe by my side, obviously to

To say what I mean not be too add a line and like still we make it fun. I feel like Joe and I make the show.

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