Studies Show Parents Are Less Lonely and Experience More Meaning
Breakpoint
Colson Center
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🗓️ 3 August 2023
⏱️ 1 minutes
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Summary
If all we had to go on was Salon, Slate, or The Atlantic magazines, we'd be forced to conclude that becoming a parent is a life sentence of loneliness. Though studies do demonstrate a loss in certain forms of happiness for parents, according to Brad Wilcox of the Institute for Family Studies, that conclusion "no longer fits the data."
Nearly 60% of childless men and women say they are lonely some, most, or all the time while only 45% of those with children report the same. Likewise, "82% of parents say they are 'very happy' or 'pretty happy' compared to just 68% of the childless."
Some of the shift likely has to do with how the pandemic disrupted social life, which families were partially insulated against. Another factor is likely America's improved work-life balance.
More important is how happiness is defined. Kids can create stress like nothing else, but they are also a source of joy and meaning.
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| 0:00.0 | With a woman to look at culture from a Christian worldview, I'm John Stone Street with the point. |
| 0:05.0 | Well, if all we had to go on was Salon's later The Atlantic magazine, we'd be forced to conclude |
| 0:09.0 | that becoming a parent is a life sentence to loneliness. |
| 0:12.0 | Their studies do demonstrate a loss in certain forms of happiness for parents. |
| 0:16.0 | According to Brad Wilcox, at the Institute for Family Studies, |
| 0:19.0 | back conclusion no longer fits the data. |
| 0:21.0 | Nearly 60% of childless men and women say they are lonely some, |
| 0:24.0 | most are all of the time, while only 45% of those with children say the same thing. |
| 0:29.0 | Likewise, 82% of parents say they're very happy or pretty happy, |
| 0:33.0 | that's compared to just 68% of the childless. |
| 0:36.0 | Some of the shift likely has to do with how much the pandemic disrupted our social lives, |
| 0:40.0 | which families were partially insulated against. |
| 0:42.0 | And other factors likely America's improved work-life balance. |
| 0:45.0 | More important here, however, is just how we define happiness. |
| 0:49.0 | Kids can create a mess like nothing else, but they're also a source of joy and meaning. |
| 0:53.0 | For the Colson Center, I'm John Stone Street. |
| 0:59.0 | Thank you. |
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