Struggling With Rejection & A Dating Dry Spell

Coach Corey Wayne

Relationships, Society & Culture

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🗓️ 9 January 2026

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Join this channel to get access to exclusive members only videos:https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQTAVxA4dNBCoPdHhX9nnoQ/joinJoin Members Only On My Website. 7 day free trial. Save 25% when you choose an annual Membership plan. Cancel anytime:https://understandingrelationships.com/plansJoin Members Only on Spotify:https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/coachcoreywayne/subscribeSome things to consider if you’re struggling with rejection & a dating dry spell.In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who is struggling with rejection. He’s 25 and read 3% Man, 5 times so far. He’s frustrated that his cold approach attempts have not led to any successes. He asks how to remain unattached and outcome independent because he’s having a hard time dealing with rejection.If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B01EIA86VC/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-057626&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_057626_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:http://amzn.to/1XKRtxdHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/how-to-be-3-man-winning-heart/id948035350?mt=11&uo=6&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/how-to-be-a-3-man-unabridged/id1106013146?at=1l3vuUo&mt=3You can get my second book, “Mastering Yourself, How To Align Your Life With Your True Calling & Reach Your Full Potential” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B07B3LCDKK/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-109399&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_109399_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/2TQV2XoHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/book/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353139487?mt=11&at=1l3vuUoHere is the link to the iTunes store to purchase the iTunes audio book version:https://geo.itunes.apple.com/us/audiobook/mastering-yourself-how-to-align-your-life-your-true/id1353594955?mt=3&at=1l3vuUoYou can get my third book, “Quotes, Ruminations & Contemplations” which is also available in Kindle $9,99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $49.99, Hardcover $99.99 and Audio Book format $24.95. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:https://www.audible.com/pd/B0941XDDCJ/?source_code=AUDFPWS0223189MWT-BK-ACX0-256995&ref=acx_bty_BK_ACX0_256995_rh_usHere is the link to Amazon to purchase Kindle, Paperback or Hardcover version:https://amzn.to/33K8VwFHere is the link to the iBookstore to purchase iBook version:https://books.apple.com/us/book/quotes-ruminations-contemplations/id1563102111?itsct=books_box_link&itscg=30200&ct=books_quotes%2C_ruminations_%26_contemplatio&ls=1

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0:00.0	Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter.
0:04.5	And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be, struggling with rejection and a dating dry spell.
0:11.7	So this guy, he's 25. He's read 3% man five times so far, and he's having a hard time dealing with rejection.
0:22.5	He says, I don't know if it was, he's talking about in the past like when he was in college he was doing this or if he's
0:26.0	in college now because he's 25 so you would think unless he's going for a phd that he's
0:30.4	finished with college or he's becoming a doctor or something. So he's 25.
0:38.0	He's read 3% man five times.
0:41.0	And so he does a lot of cold approaches.
0:43.4	And even some of these women that he's talked to, he has friends or acquaintances that
0:47.8	have dated these women.
0:49.4	And he says he's just constantly getting rejected and he's having a hard time dealing with that.
0:55.0	He's demotivating him because he's like, I've done all these cold approaches and they've gone nowhere.
0:59.2	So the thing you've got to understand, if you're just doing random cold approaches,
1:03.2	you're mostly going to get rejected.
1:06.2	Ideally, if you're going to cold approach, you're going to get a much better experience
1:09.6	and you're going to get a higher close ratio, if the women at least make eye contact and smile at you,
1:16.1	which is not going to happen most of the time. But you've got to practice it. You've got to be a social
1:21.2	person. You've got to get out there and interact with other human beings. But the best way to meet
1:25.9	women is instead of just doing random cold approaches on the street
1:30.3	or at college, you got to think of yourself as like a fisherman.
1:34.3	And so you want to go where there's lots of fish.
1:38.3	And especially as a man, anytime you can put yourself in a situation where you're outnumbered by women,
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