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The PedsDocTalk Podcast

Struggling with intimacy after a baby-why it happens and what to do

The PedsDocTalk Podcast

Dr. Mona Amin

Medicine, Health & Fitness, Kids & Family, Parenting

51.4K Ratings

🗓️ 30 October 2024

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

Intimacy after childbirth is…COMPLICATED.There are so many societal pressures for postpartum sex but what is more important is to have open communication about desires and readiness. We need to redefine sexual experiences beyond intercourse to include emotional connection and playful touch. This week, I welcome Dr. Tracy Dalgleish, a couples therapist, to discuss how healthy relationships positively impact parenting and what’s needed to reconnect with your partner post-baby. She joins me to discuss:  Misconceptions about postpartum intimacy, such as societal pressures and readiness for sex Why a strong partnership positively influences parenting How to redefine intimacy to focus on small, meaningful moments To connect with Dr. Tracy Dalgleish follow her on Instagram @drtracyd, check out all her resources at https://www.drtracyd.com/. Check out the two books Dr. Tracy mentioned: Come as You Are and Better Sex Through Mindfulness Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk TV. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0

And I would be at the park with other parents and parents would be talking about sleeping and food and introducing solids and nursing and you know what are you doing for hobbies and all of these conversations and nobody was talking about how they

0:15.6

resent their partner or how they were missing the intimacy or how they haven't

0:20.4

had sex or they have different desire levels and so here I am as a therapist as

0:25.2

a psychologist I know that this is what parents are experiencing but it's one thing to be in my psychologist

0:30.9

chair and then it's a whole other experience to be at the park with my kids and

0:36.4

wondering why is it that I'm the one that always has to buy deodorant and tooth-faced.

0:40.5

Welcome back to the show. I'm your host Dr.. Mona, and I hope you're having a great week.

0:45.2

If you're listening to this episode on its debut day, it is election season here in the United States,

0:50.0

and I went in-person voting for the first time and took my almost five-year-old son Ryan with me and it was an incredible experience.

0:58.0

I loved how excited the poll workers were to show him everything, but what I loved the most was the palpable energy in the lines.

1:05.8

You didn't even have to know who was voting for who,

1:09.4

but people were just excited.

1:11.0

And it got me thinking that maybe even with our differences our world

1:16.3

can be a loving and accepting place maybe and I was just so excited Ryan got to

1:21.0

witness that and if you haven't voted or the election has passed

1:24.4

make an effort to take your child once to vote or every time because it's such a

1:29.2

privilege to live in a country with democracy.

1:32.8

Okay, now let's get to today's conversation.

1:34.7

Remember, if you love this episode,

1:36.4

share it on social media, comment on my social media post,

1:39.4

and leave a review.

1:40.7

In this episode, I'm thrilled to welcome Dr. Tracy Dahlgish, psychologist, therapist, and author of

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