Coming up on marriage today with Jimmy and Karen.

Karen and I people ask us, you know, the secret of our marriage, God.

God is the secret of our marriage.

God is the secret of why we're together and the greatest

intimacy that we experience is the spiritual part of our relationship.

I can remember me on the times I'd hear you pray and it was just so endearing because you know you

it was a humility of you you know crying out to God to help us you know that we

can't do this God. We need you. Good sex is always intentional. You may have been, you know, naturally,

obviously attracted to each other sexually when you met, but we can enjoy sex

for the rest of our married lives.

You know, research proves that people are enjoying sex, 70s, 80s,

longer than ever because we're living longer and because of medical technology.

But it's always intentional. It's never by accident.

Listen, don't let the devil tell you the lie that if you married the right person,

that it would just happen naturally and you wouldn't have to work at it. That's just not true.

You always have to put energy into the relationship regardless.

But the other thing about striking your sexual match is, it's how to take the natural differences that are between us and to make them

dynamic rather than dangerous. God made us different by his design. We're very

very different and when you understand those differences, it's dynamic,

but when you don't, it's a very dangerous thing. And so sex demonstrates how different we are but complimentary.

When I was in college, my job was to pull pipe fittings in pipe.

When I first started, I didn't know any kind of pipe fitting.

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