Strict Is Loving

Respectful Parenting: Janet Lansbury Unruffled

JLML Press

Kids & Family, Parenting

4.7 • 3.8K Ratings

🗓️ 10 September 2024

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

Janet's "all feelings allowed" approach to parenting is sometimes misconstrued as permissive, passive, lax on boundaries. But as Janet clarifies in this episode, the exact opposite is true! She describes how acquiescing to our kids' whims and demands, giving them multiple chances to comply with our directions, or making it our job to console them when our rules disappoint can be a set-up for failure for our kids and us. She explains how respectful parenting is actually quite strict, and why, in her view, strict is much kinder and more loving than the alternative, builds better relationships, and encourages lifelong emotional resiliency in our kids.

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0:42.0	Hi, this is Janet Lansbury. Welcome to Unruffled.
0:45.0	Okay, today this is going to be fun.
0:48.0	I'm going to be talking about being strict.
0:51.0	It's not a word that I use that often, but this idea of strict came up in the
0:56.8	last podcast episode I did where I consulted with a parent who was
1:05.0	spoiling her gentle approach that she was using was spoiling her child.
1:08.0	And as we looked into what she was doing,
1:12.0	there were a lot of places where this parent was not taking
1:16.7	the leadership role that I believe our children really need from us.
1:22.0	And there were places where she was interpreting what I teach as very focused on
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