Stress Testing Your Woman For Loyalty
Coach Corey Wayne
Coach Corey Wayne
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🗓️ 23 January 2026
⏱️ 23 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | Hi, I'm Coach Corey Wayne, and this is my video coaching newsletter. |
| 0:04.2 | And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be stress testing your woman for loyalty. |
| 0:10.4 | Well, you may have heard the term that kind of got popularized back during 2008, 2009, |
| 0:16.6 | when they were having all the problems with the banking and the finance system and the implosion of all the loans from the previous years. |
| 0:25.5 | And they call it stress testing the banks, |
| 0:28.3 | in other words to see what kind of reserves they had |
| 0:32.6 | and did they have enough to weather the downturn in the economy. |
| 0:37.4 | And so this particular viewer, he says he's been following my work for eight years. |
| 0:42.0 | He's been with his girlfriend for six, and they've lived together for five. |
| 0:47.3 | And he's about to finish up medical school and doesn't have a lot of extra money right now. |
| 0:53.7 | And so he wonders, because obviously the next step for him where they're at is getting married, starting a family, that kind of thing. |
| 1:01.5 | And so he's saying, well, since I'm pretty broke right now, trying to finish school the next two years, things are good with my girl. |
| 1:13.8 | But what if I just stopped courting her on purpose and became basically a crappy boyfriend to see how she handles it? |
| 1:21.0 | Will she start giving out her number at other dudes? In other words, if he slacks off and gets lazy, |
| 1:26.2 | complacent, you know, thinking about in a few years |
| 1:28.8 | when he's real busy and his medical practice is doing well and he's working lots of hours |
| 1:35.0 | and he starts to neglect her and the kids, how is she going to react? |
| 1:40.0 | So it's an interesting hypothesis, but he's basically saying, hey, what do you think about me |
| 1:46.8 | trying to wreck my relationship just to see if she'll stick around? |
| 1:51.1 | So typically, what I've seen over the last 20 years of doing this is that, you know, because |
| 1:57.5 | guys are coming to me because they got problems. |
| 1:59.4 | Their wife doesn't want to sleep with them. Their girlfriend doesn't want to sleep with them anymore. They want to divorce. They want to separate. They want to break up. They want space. Whatever happens to be. And what you always see is the guy stopped dating and courting her. And he didn't make her feel heard and understood and so that's |
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