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The Gathering Room Podcast

Stop Waiting, Start Living

The Gathering Room Podcast

Martha Beck

Business, Entrepreneurship, Self-improvement, Courses, Education

5656 Ratings

🗓️ 30 January 2021

⏱️ 32 minutes

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Summary

Many of us have been waiting for the world to right itself. But when we focus on waiting, life can become unbearable. When we live in limbo, it creates some degree of suffering. In fact, Martha reveals her belief that the source of most suffering is misplaced focus: concentrating on a possible future and removing our attention from the present moment. She teaches us how to come home to ourselves through the trans-theoretical model of action. (Originally aired: Sept. 13, 2020.)

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Gathering Pod, the audio version of my weekly gathering room broadcast. I'm Martha Beck.

0:09.5

Today, I was texting a friend in California, and I said, I'm just waiting for things to happen,

0:18.6

and she said, yes, I know that feeling. I've been waiting for the world to ride itself.

0:23.0

And I thought, I bet a lot of us are doing that.

0:27.2

There are so many things.

0:29.3

Adam doesn't really understand the concept of plague.

0:31.6

In fact, we had to explain the concept of germs to him

0:34.1

when the pandemic hit.

0:35.8

So we just call it the sickness. When the sickness is over,

0:38.8

we will do X, Y, and Z. When we X, Y, and Z, for you non-Americans, look at how I can speak both

0:45.3

languages. It's amazing. No, it's not. But I think a lot of people have been saying, when pick your poison, really,

0:58.0

when the fires stop in California,

1:01.0

when we're all out of COVID lockdown,

1:05.0

when there is finally justice in the American social and political system.

1:11.6

You're like, when this happens, life will be so much better.

1:15.6

And it's true.

1:17.6

And it's worth waiting for those things.

1:19.6

But the problem is that if you focus just on waiting,

1:23.6

life becomes absolutely unbearable,

1:26.6

which is why waiting rooms are such notoriously

1:29.8

unpleasant places. If you do any meditation, you will eventually hear people telling you to

1:35.1

use meditation in a waiting room, because waiting rooms are awful. And the reason they're so awful

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