Hey guys. Hey guys. Welcome back to another episode of The Selfie Show, where we are bringing a weekly dose of sweet and salty. I am Tori, the founder now co-host of the show. I am a nurse, blogger, and podcaster. And I am Sam. I am a flight nurse, college professor, podcaster, powerlifter, and now co-host of the selfie show. Today we're talking off the clock. Quit trying to make fetch happen. Yes, Gretchen Wieners. Stop it. Stop. Stop it. It's not going to happen. It's not going to happen. What do we mean by that? So we kind had this idea it's it's slightly a kind of an

unpopular opinion of stop trying to do the thing that you think or you want to force make happen

and you want to happen so bad but it's not working for you like it's not your thing stop doing

it like honestly i should stop powerlifting because I suck at it. I'm just kidding. Stop trying to make fetch happen. Stop trying to make fetch happen. Um, you know, we're in our heads. We have a couple topics we're going to dive into about this where maybe this is applicable, right? Like where it's something where you're trying to force it a little too much and it's just not going to happen for you or so your thing yeah move on

move on move on and we're going to embrace that idea because you know and we talk about this a little bit too

of like I don't know I think you can be very good in one way and want to be really good at something

but then you're just not. Or maybe the idea,

this is kind of an unpopular opinion of like, not everybody's going to be good at everything or the

things you want to be good at. The whole like, if I work really hard, you can be anything you want

to be. I don't know. I don't know about that. I don't know. I think that's, I don't, it's not that I think that's a false narrative. But, I don't know. I don't know about that. I don't know. I think that's, I don't, it's not that I say,

think that's a false narrative, but I think that's the wrong message. I think that's saying,

pushing too hard on something or trying to push something too hard on something that, that's not

where you should be putting your, your efforts into. Does that make sense?

Yeah, it's like an infant where they have the toys where you're trying to put the triangle

through the triangle and the square block through the square block and the circle.

And you're trying to force the triangle through the circle.

Square peg, round hole.

Yes, it's not going to go.

Square peg, round hole. It's good's not going to go. Square peg, round hole.

It's good for development.

Yeah.

It's good for their development.

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