So recently a friend of mine and I were out having coffee and we were just chatting about dating

and modern dating, dating apps.

I mean, the whole gamut.

He's in his early 40s.

He's single.

He's enjoying the dating world.

I also had quite a few complaints about the dating world.

And we got talking about what women want.

And there's two things that I really want to talk about

here because, you know, he started to ask me, you know, he said, Connor, like, you've worked with

so many men over the years, helping them save their marriages and in relationships, and you've

worked with couples and you worked with women. He said, what do you think that women really want?

And what do you think that men need to

understand about women? And I said, well, that's, those are, those are two massive questions.

And I said, first, I think that what we as men need to understand about women is that we don't

understand women. And that it's not our job to trying to figure them out, right? Like in a relationship,

our work is not to try and figure out the women that we're with, you know, and there's this notion

in the manosphere and certain pickup communities and dating advice and some of the dating

coaches that I see

that paint a picture that women are a certain way, that if you just act this way,

that you'll get those results because women are this way and that we as men have somehow

figured out women.

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