Welcome to the Woman Evolve podcast. My name is Sarah Jake's Roberts. I am so glad that I get to be with you this week.

You know, this week's mind your business question has been stuck in my head just like on repeat, on loop, because she echoes something that I thought was true that I had to learn actually wasn't true. It's about learning

to forgive ourselves primarily when we're in our youth and how challenging it be before. I give

you my answer and my own story though. I want to hop right into it. So let me play it. Hi, Sarah. I have a question. So first off, I love you so much and I just thank you for

who you are and everything that you represent. I was listening to your podcast about messy

histories and you were talking about Tamar and a lot of things that she experienced and how God knew her heart

and everything like that. And you also wanted to how some of the things you went through,

you healed from them by understanding that God recognized your efforts, your intentions,

and he shows you grace and mercy. And and looking back you no longer have any form of

regret or guilt on what you want to because everything can't out the way it's supposed to.

As someone that's in the early 20s and can't really necessarily see or really comprehend what exactly

the future holds.

How are you supposed to go about healing from a path that seems so close?

Like, through the process of time, you're able to kind of heal because the past becomes further and further away,

and I think that's how you overcome certain obstacles.

But when you're actually in certain obstacles but when you're

actually in it or when you're young or you don't have that ability to really

say that you experience life enough to kind of look back and say I don't I

don't regret this I don't regret that how are you able to get over that how

are you able to be able to say that you know everything worked out for my

good if you're still in process you don't necessarily know that everything is going to work out

for your good if that makes sense so hopefully that makes sense and um if i could just get

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