Hi everybody. Welcome to the Women's Dating and Confidence Podcast. My name is Amber, and today we're going to be talking about the sexiest, most playful way to text a guy and the kind of mindset that you need to be in

in order to do that. There are a few things that are different about my environment today.

One, I just traveled to Santa Barbara today to visit my boyfriend, and I'm staying here for

two weeks, and he actually has the same microphone that I do,

but I was just trying to plug it in and it's not working, or somehow it's not compatible

with my computer for some reason. So I'm just speaking straight into the laptop, so the sound

quality might be different than what you're used to. I'm also recording this podcast the

night before, like a terrible student, but I was super busy last week because we had the four-day

money and career confidence event in Portland. And then on the fifth day, I flew flew out here so I've been traveling all day

and then I once I got here I was spending time with my boyfriend who I haven't seen in a

month and a half which is the longest time that we haven't seen each other and now it's

9 p.m. So I was really excited to record this episode though.

On the plane ride over here, I wrote down some ideas of what I could talk to you about.

And when I was on the plane ride over here, I met a person on the plane,

and we ended up talking for the entire plane ride, which was just a little bit

over an hour. And he was telling me that him and his friends, you know, him and his guy friends,

they'll sip whiskey and analyze for three hours what to text girls on Tinder. And so I was like, I'm definitely going to tell the listeners

of the podcast that because women are always saying to me, why is it so easy for guys? Do they

even struggle with this kind of stuff? Are we the only ones who are needing to learn these

tips and tricks? Or like, why is it so hard for us and so easy for them?

And I'm like, you have no idea what's going on for guys.

And they do the exact same stuff.

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