Hey everyone, it's your girl Breene Lee and welcome to the pep talk podcast where we have real, raw, relatable conversations with the pep talk you need.

You have the power to create your future with the choices that you made today.

What do you bring to the table?

Baby, I am the table.

Fuck yourself a little bit more than that, ladies.

Come on.

Dust settles, queens don't.

And don't forget, know your worth and then attacks.

Period.

Today I want to have a frank conversation with you on a topic of worth and how so many women discount themselves or negotiate their worth.

There are so many times when I hear a woman talk about settling.

She doesn't know it's settling, but she is talking about settling.

And she'll be like,

well, I'm going to have to date a guy with kids anyway, because I've got kids. Or I have to date a guy like this because, look, I'm a size 14, a size 15, size 16. I have to date a guy like this

because fill in the blank. And there's so many times that I hear women

discredit themselves or lower their worth based on, I guess, what society would perceive as a flaw

or someone that doesn't deserve what they're asking for. And if you follow certain channels on

YouTube, you will start to think and believe that

there is a formula to being in a relationship, there's a formula to love, there's a formula to get in

a high value guy or etc, etc. And what that causes a lot of women to do is to discount themselves

and actually lower their value. But when you settle,

you never get anything good. When you negotiate your worth, you'll get what you're asking for.

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